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Old 04-26-2009, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I'd hate to be around when she sneezes.

Ah...... I wouldn`t recommend it.

 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:33 PM
 
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Do you dress like someone who is affiliated with gangs? Oversized everything. Oversized jeans that hang so low people can see your underwear? Nothing but sports attire (Lakers or Raiders shirts) or baseball caps on sideways, backwards or on straight with a "do" rag underneath?

If this is how you dress, then yep, you can probably expect people to look at you a certain way because that is what is typical of gang/criminal attire.
No, I don't dress that way.

People look at me and dislike/hate me since I'm not much, and they can sense I'm not much. I look at guys at college and think why I cannot be normal like them?
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:41 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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No, I don't dress that way.

People look at me and dislike/hate me since I'm not much, and they can sense I'm not much. I look at guys at college and think why I cannot be normal like them?
Dude snap out of it.


Man up and deal with things. Don't let the crap in life get you.

You can do it, I know, because I'm really starting to do it.

Because if I can, you can too.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:42 PM
 
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Dude snap out of it.


Man up and deal with things. Don't let the crap in life get you.

You can do it, I know, because I'm really starting to do it.

Because if I can, you can too.
What does that mean?
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:45 PM
 
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If you are serious about solving this problem, then seek out a professional counselor for help.
I don't like mental health professionals, since I think they only base their judgements on their own personal opinions and not on any standard research or practice.

I think getting among people would help me, and i wanted to go to a bar on Friday and chat up a girl, but I feared people there would look at me and hate me and it would end up in a fight and I would get the blame.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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well, either way, you cannot prove I am lying. I know in my heart what I am saying is true.
Well goody goody gumshoes for you.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:48 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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What does that mean?
I'm trying to help you.

You feel alone right?

You think eveybody is staring at you right??

Do you understand what I'm saying to you??


F what people think. Do your thing.

It's taking my a long time to get here.

Let's hope you get there quicker.

I hope so.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Do you dress like someone who is affiliated with gangs? Oversized everything. Oversized jeans that hang so low people can see your underwear? Nothing but sports attire (Lakers or Raiders shirts) or baseball caps on sideways, backwards or on straight with a "do" rag underneath?

If this is how you dress, then yep, you can probably expect people to look at you a certain way because that is what is typical of gang/criminal attire.
You mean something like this?

http://coldneck.files.wordpress.com/2007/03/18696.jpg
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:49 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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What does that mean?
This guy is just not getting it, or he's yanking everyone around for fun. If he really believes "in my heart" that this is all true, there isn't a damned thing any of us can do to change his mind. And you know there isn't anything to be done about someone with no life.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I don't like mental health professionals, since I think they only base their judgements on their own personal opinions and not on any standard research or practice.

I think getting among people would help me, and i wanted to go to a bar on Friday and chat up a girl, but I feared people there would look at me and hate me and it would end up in a fight and I would get the blame.
Yeah, you better just stay home. You might cause someone to open up a can of whupass, then you wouldn't be here to post up your crappy nonsense that keeps us all so entertained.
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