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Old 04-26-2009, 08:56 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Okay Sam, I'm going to take you at your word that you are not a troll and that you are in fact living this kind of life okay?

Now, and I mean this in the kindest way possible, you need professional help. You are paranoid.

The way you feel you are being treated seems very real to you I'm sure, but the reality is most people could not care less about you when you walk into a room - they really just don't care and they certainly don't hate you. GET SOME HELP.
^ Exactly what she said.

 
Old 04-26-2009, 08:58 PM
 
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Maybe your size intimidates others. What about going to the gym to work out some of your frustrations, lose some weight and practicing your smile in front of a mirror? Are there any comedians or comedy shows/movies you like? If so, listen and watch them. Try to have a good laugh at least once a day, even if it's by yourself in the beginning.

Otherwise, I think that one of your issues is that you are taking yourself and life way too seriously.

You seem to have a bit of repressed anger, so use the punching bag at the gym to get those frustrations out.
I don't think i take life too seriously.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:00 PM
 
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Okay Sam, I'm going to take you at your word that you are not a troll and that you are in fact living this kind of life okay?

Now, and I mean this in the kindest way possible, you need professional help. You are paranoid.

The way you feel you are being treated seems very real to you I'm sure, but the reality is most people could not care less about you when you walk into a room - they really just don't care and they certainly don't hate you. GET SOME HELP.
I understand most people though, they think I am strange and a ****. This is why they look at me and hate me.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:02 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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I don't think i take life too seriously.
Well, I think that you do if you are so concerned about what everyone else thinks of you and unhappy with the way they treat you. If you walked around with a happy pleasant look on your face, people wouldn't be scowling at you all the time.

However, I don't know you in real life and since you haven't yet posted a picture of yourself, I can only go by your written posts.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I understand most people though, they think I am strange and a ****. This is why they look at me and hate me.
My God. Quit your sniveling and go live your freaking life. Just. Shut. Up. SHUT UP.

Good Christ no wonder everyone looks at you with disdain. People don't like whinging pantywaists.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:20 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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My God. Quit your sniveling and go live your freaking life. Just. Shut. Up. SHUT UP.

Good Christ no wonder everyone looks at you with disdain. People don't like whinging pantywaists.
You had a little bit of Christian Bale going on in that one.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:20 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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I understand most people though, they think I am strange and a ****. This is why they look at me and hate me.
Does anyone like you? Do you have any friends? Are you close to your family? You just sound so isolated, lonely and frustrated.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:24 PM
 
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Does anyone like you? Do you have any friends? Are you close to your family? You just sound so isolated, lonely and frustrated.
no, and i despise my family. They aren't decent people.
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:28 PM
 
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My God. Quit your sniveling and go live your freaking life. Just. Shut. Up. SHUT UP.

Good Christ no wonder everyone looks at you with disdain. People don't like whinging pantywaists.
Why are you angry?
 
Old 04-26-2009, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Yucaipa, California
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As long as you dont look like the elephant man i would just ignore them.People can be just downright rude.
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