Being looked at and disliked by people - I hate it! (person, college)

[samston]

Originally Posted by denunk

Mr. Samston,
You seem to have all the symptoms of clinical depression which may or may not be coexisting with social paranoia. You are profoundly sad, and (it seems) easily enraged by strangers and their perception of your appearance. Please get some help. There is no reason on Earth why you should be unhappy.

Why have I no reason to be unhappy?

I am not normal like everyone else.

I have come up with a plan though:

- be more talkative
- tell more jokes
- get a girlfriend/SO
- disown my immediate family

With these steps, I'd make a lot of progress.

[At1WithNature]

Originally Posted by samston

7 - some people say i look like biggie smalls.

if you are overweight, like half of the people will lose respect for you right there. it's sad but true.

[samston]

Originally Posted by At1WithNature

if you are overweight, like half of the people will lose respect for you right there. it's sad but true.

Why? So half of the US population are hated then?

[artsyguy]

Hey don't look at me. You know I don't look that way or approve of that appearance. A lot of the people I see with those huge nose bull rings makes me very anxious. ha ha.

Originally Posted by cremebrulee

well this guy has bout 10 ear rings going up the side of his ear and several nose piercings...and yes I have seen them, and I do know they are making a statement...but in the long run, not everyone has those things artsy.

[artsyguy]

Hey Samston,

You need to have a plan B and a plan C in case plan A doesn't work.

Is your immediate family abusive or do mean things??

Originally Posted by samston

Why have I no reason to be unhappy?

I am not normal like everyone else.

I have come up with a plan though:

- be more talkative
- tell more jokes
- get a girlfriend/SO
- disown my immediate family

With these steps, I'd make a lot of progress.

[cremebrulee]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Hey don't look at me. You know I don't look that way or approve of that appearance. A lot of the people I see with those huge nose bull rings makes me very anxious. ha ha.

HAH, that's not what I heard artsy?

[artsyguy]

Yes. Internalized oppression. Look it up. Internalized Oppression (http://www.letswrap.com/nadvinfo/internal.htm - broken link)

Originally Posted by samston

Why? So half of the US population are hated then?

[samston]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Hey Samston,

You need to have a plan B and a plan C in case plan A doesn't work.

Is your immediate family abusive or do mean things??

well, they are evil. I try not to speak with them as much as possible.

[samston]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Yes. Internalized oppression. Look it up. Internalized Oppression (http://www.letswrap.com/nadvinfo/internal.htm - broken link)

i still don't understand.

[artsyguy]

Samston,

If you want to be happy you have to do the research yourself and learn about the world. Internalized Racism

Originally Posted by samston

i still don't understand.