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while misreading a plenty. A person may look not at you but through you reflecting on something totally unrelated... Scoffing not at you but at ingrown nail in their shoes, a boss at work, at traffic, at weather, at taxes..
I don't want to discount your feelings, but this sounds extremely over the top. Anywhere?
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I have known people who are extremely insecure; they think nobody likes them. It seems, to me, that they are looking for some kind of gesture or look that proves them wrong.,everywhere they go. When they don't get it, if re-affirms in their minds that people really don't like them. Not sure if that makes sense.
My point is, and I don't mean to sound offensive, that no one is that important. I think you might be reading into people's reactions, or lack thereof, too much. And I really am seeing this pattern based on your previous posts.
What do you mean by pattern?
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ETA: I'm not saying that some people are not actually displeased with you, but to this degree doesn't make sense, to me.
I know it seems odd, but it is true. Yesterday i went to class, and everybody in the college was looking at me as if they detested me.
It even happens at work. i don't like going to certain offices of our firm, since they all look at me and laugh. i'm thinking of sending the office manager at those places an e-mail saying i don't expect to be treated like that where i work, but it's not worth the trouble.
I know it seems odd, but it is true. Yesterday i went to class, and everybody in the college was looking at me as if they detested me.
It even happens at work. i don't like going to certain offices of our firm, since they all look at me and laugh. i'm thinking of sending the office manager at those places an e-mail saying i don't expect to be treated like that where i work, but it's not worth the trouble.
My step-daughter has the same complaints about people. As we talked, I found out that she has quite a mouth in the classroom. One day, the class was discussing about drug use by some young people and she shut a classmate up by saying, in front of the whole class, that she shouldn't judge other people because she herself got pregnant at 14. The whole class was shocked into silence. This she does regulary in other classes to other people and constantly wonders why nobody wants to be friends with her. She changes colleges but still she has no friends. She has to change herself to make the situation better.
My step-daughter has the same complaints about people. As we talked, I found out that she has quite a mouth in the classroom. One day, the class was discussing about drug use by some young people and she shut a classmate up by saying, in front of the whole class, that she shouldn't judge other people because she herself got pregnant at 14. The whole class was shocked into silence. This she does regulary in other classes to other people and constantly wonders why nobody wants to be friends with her. She changes colleges but still she has no friends. She has to change herself to make the situation better.
well i'm not curt person as such. i wouldn't say rude things without much provocation.
i guess people just think i'm a **** or something, i don't know.
Are you sure you saw EVERYONE looking at you in disdain? Perhaps you missed a few who might have been in the restrooms? Just checking.
Yeah, seems like a lot of exaggeration....
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