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Old 07-12-2009, 06:48 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Sounds hot. Is he single???
Get in the back of the line, sista, or its you and me in the parking lot like two seagulls over a french fry.
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Old 07-12-2009, 06:50 PM
 
Location: southern california
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when mama and papa are gone the people left will not take care of each other, no they will not.
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Old 07-12-2009, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Get in the back of the line, sista, or its you and me in the parking lot like two seagulls over a french fry.
My beak is bigger ........
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Old 07-12-2009, 07:06 PM
 
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I've said it once, and I'll say it again. You cripple your children when you make their lives easy.
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Old 07-12-2009, 08:54 PM
 
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Sounds hot. Is he single???
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Get in the back of the line, sista, or its you and me in the parking lot like two seagulls over a french fry.
You guys are cracking me up here!!
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Old 07-12-2009, 10:33 PM
 
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Get in the back of the line, sista, or its you and me in the parking lot like two seagulls over a french fry.
I have a brother you two might want to meet... please!
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Old 07-12-2009, 10:34 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I have a brother you two might want to meet... please!
LMAO
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Old 07-13-2009, 10:46 AM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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I understand completely, I've just about had it with work myself. I can't sponge off my mom for too long so it's probably going to be a life of crime for me.
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Old 07-13-2009, 10:59 AM
 
Location: Vero Beach, Fl
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Until your mother shows him the door - this situation will remain. I understand your frustration because my brother-in-law was exactly the same. What made it change? My in-laws said get a job or else. He got a job and turned his life around.

You can not change this situation. You will only get increasingly frustrated, angry, and stressed. For what? So, do yourself a favor and let it go for now. Your brother is providing the helping hand your mother needs and is filling in the gap that your father left with his passing. Plus your mother is still grieving your father's passing. Give it time.
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Old 03-26-2011, 02:52 AM
 
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I dont know what to do with my Mother and brother, I have a rent house I let my Mom move into 8 years ago, i dont collect rent from her only the taxes witch are about $68.00 a month. She moved in my 48 year old brother who has not worked in 10 years and has a drinking problem, She get $598.00 a month from her SSI and thats what they live off of( also while hitting me up for money too) she buys his cigeretts and know i learned that he is drinking mouth wash and she feeding it to him, is this a classic case of munchausen disease. Know i feel like an enabler too, totaly stressed, I told my mom she has a place to live but not him , she refuses to leave him.WTF I feel like i'm takin crazy pills, my brother is forcing me to evict my Mother.What do I do?
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