People who don't blame others for their problems..... (person)

[artsyguy]

These people in my experience are a lot of times the ones that treat some people like crud. IE: talking in a condescending know-it-all manner, cold and aloof, not keeping promises, boasting, and using misleading behaviors among other passive-aggressive behaviors such as keeping a facade of perfection when that might not be the truth.

They aren't out right saying "I'm miserable because so and so gets on my nerves." "I'm upset with my life because....." or "My job depresses me so much." They just keep all that to themselves, keep it a secret, and then unleash their fury on unsuspecting persons.

So just because a person doesn't outright "blame", or say "You are to blame" which makes them appear normal, pleasant, and good doesn't make them truly nice or good people to work with, be around, or be in a relationship with. Just my observations (from past experiences, not current experiences thank Jezuz)!

[Anneee]

But how do you know which people blame others for their problems, and which don't?

I think I'm missing something.

[Huckleberry3911948]

Originally Posted by Anneee

But how do you know which people blame others for their problems, and which don't?

I think I'm missing something.

the same way you know a plant, by its fruit.

[temptation001]

When did Jesus get two Z's in his name? Why?

[artsyguy]

That's the all new cool way to spell our beloved hero's name. It's ebonics.

Originally Posted by temptation001

When did Jesus get two Z's in his name? Why?

[artsyguy]

Unless somebody outright says "You are to blame for the fact that I have ......." you wouldn't really know......you'd just have to guess how the person treats you.......like if they treat you unfairly and use undue criticism to hurt you.

Originally Posted by Anneee

But how do you know which people blame others for their problems, and which don't?

I think I'm missing something.

[temptation001]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

That's the all new cool way to spell our beloved hero's name. It's ebonics.

Oh. Well thank you for showing us the new cool way to spell Jesus, Artsy.

[artsyguy]

You are so welcome. I'm glad I could be of assistance to you.

Originally Posted by temptation001

Oh. Well thank you for showing us the new cool way to spell Jesus, Artsy.

[moonshadow]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Unless somebody outright says "You are to blame for the fact that I have ......." you wouldn't really know......you'd just have to guess how the person treats you.......like if they treat you unfairly and use undue criticism to hurt you.

What if you guess wrong?

[artsyguy]

Ya you never really know.

Originally Posted by moonshadow

What if you guess wrong?