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Old 10-29-2009, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque
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I hate her, I hate my whole family, and I wish they would all drop dead at once. I e-mailed the Facebook people and hopefully it will get taken down.
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Old 10-29-2009, 05:22 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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"Intentional infliction of emotional distress" is the first thing that comes to mind.
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Old 10-29-2009, 05:25 PM
 
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I see you have started several 'persecution' threads. I, seriously, recommended seeing both a psychiatrist AND a cognative therapist which is a different method than regular 'talk' therapist. Based on what I have been reading of your posts I honestly think this is something that will help you.
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Old 10-29-2009, 05:33 PM
 
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Yikes. Get some help. Quick.
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Old 10-29-2009, 05:49 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I hate her, I hate my whole family, and I wish they would all drop dead at once. I e-mailed the Facebook people and hopefully it will get taken down.
Thats sad, having family members that are cruel is distressful, I can't imagine
what one would get out of this, but there has to be a payoff, and thats you.
Don't play the game. Just sit back and wait for the Karma train to pull in their backyard, it will.
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Old 10-29-2009, 05:50 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles>Little Rock>Houston>Little Rock
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You remind me of my sister. I wish I knew how to help her and/or you.
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Old 10-29-2009, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I hate her, I hate my whole family, and I wish they would all drop dead at once.
You are over flowing with "hate." How sad.
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Old 10-29-2009, 06:44 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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Gotta love the family drama..that's a pretty juvenile thing for your step-sister to do. How old is she?
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Old 10-29-2009, 06:50 PM
 
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Gotta love the family drama..that's a pretty juvenile thing for your step-sister to do. How old is she?
This might help explain it I feel so unlovable and hate life
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Old 10-29-2009, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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catrinac you need to find a therapist that you feel comfortable with and give them a chance to work with you. But know this, no one can change you but you. A therapist can give you tools, but if you aren't open and honest with them or are not willing to take their advice and implement it in your daily life it will not help. We are all strangers to you. We can listen your problems, try to console you, give you tough love, and advice but we can't physically live your life for you.

I have an ex-friend who is VERY negative. She is all about her 'woe is me' stories. We used to invite her out with us, groups of 3 to up 8 people and she ALWAYS stuck out like a sore thumb with the permanent scowl she had on her face. The result is that no one wanted to be around her. She was a buzz kill. No guy would talk to her because her aura was just all negative. It became a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more her attitude pushed people away, the more lonely and isolated she became, and in turn the more her behaviors were exacerbated. She became a drain on me emotionally and mentally. My last few conversations with her, I told her she needed to get help. Although I was the last of her group of friends to end our friendship, I just could not have her in my life. She even started attacking me because I was "too pretty, too outgoing, too successful, too bla bla bla" to understand how she feels (her words not mine). There is only so much one can take. She e-mailed me last week and told me she is going to some type of group counseling twice a week. I wish her the best and hope one day we can be friends. Don't let her mistakes be your own. Don't push people away with your attitude, accept help/advice where you can get it, and love yourself because at the end of the day YOU are all you have.
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