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My husband and I are considering a move to NC to be closer to family. We are worried that we won't be able to handle it financially with 4 kids. I plan to stay home and homeschool so we'd be living solely off one teaching income. Anyone making this work down there? We currently live in Alaska and have no problems making this lifestyle work here.
A family of SIX??
On ONE teacher's salary? I cannot imagine they'd have much of a lifestyle, even presuming the "one" were able to get a teaching job here right now. What field of teaching?
First, I would recommend using one of the search engines to do a "cost of living" comparison. Some things are more expensive here, but some things are less expensive. It depends on what you buy, of course.
Secondly, one response you will see to almost all questions about moving here is "have a job first." Does your husband have a job offer in NC, yet? From my understanding, it's very difficult to get a job once one has relocated to the area, especially in the teaching field.
Third, is it possible to live with family or rent in the area to see what things are like for you and if you can make it work? Could you two live separately while he tries to get established here before uprooting the whole family?
I think anyone can live just about anywhere with the right budgeting skills, but that's just me. Only you know what are "must haves" and what are "luxuries" for your family. Think it through, come up with a plan and work toward your goal. The right opportunity will present itself at the right time.
Heck no. We are a family of 4 living on a teacher's salary with a master's degree and it is near impossible. My husband works in the summer, tutors and I babysit and we still scrape by when things like car repairs, appliance/home repairs pop up. The health insurance alone kills us. It is almost $600 for 80% coverage, so co-pays, deductibles, etc. also can be a killer during cold/flu season when you have a few doctor's appointments in one month. We were desperate for a teaching job and to own a home when we moved here 4 years ago. We should have researched the health insurance better because we lost $10K a year in teacher's salary plus we had free medical for the whole family which is another $7200 a year we lost a year moving out here. The cost of living is not that much lower for us. The main thing is we can be a home owner in NC, but back home we could only rent and even before the recession teaching jobs in our area were scarce. NC has be good to us in many ways, but we still have taken a beating with the health insurance, low wages and no pay increases the last couple years. However, I am sure our groceries are cheaper than Alaska and I imagine heating bills. I am not sure about Alaska's cost of living, but you will most likely be living on less than $40K (depending on years of experience) and $7200 a year in health insurance in NC. Housing will average $600-$1000 for nothing too fancy. I would think long and hard about such a drastic move.
I am single and own a home and have to work a 2nd job to cover my mortgage, car payment, and everything else. Even then it is super tight!!
(My mortgage is about the same as I paid in rent- $850, and my car payment is decent- $320. But, when you bring home $1800 a month for teaching and add everything else into it- utilities and what-not- it is just not enough!)
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