Hi
Here is some info from the National Veterans web page. I knew the VA hospital for North Dakota was in Fargo...but there is a clinic in Bismarck.
North Dakota | National Veterans Foundation
As far as colleges...nearest ones would be in Bismarck. Might want to check into Bismarck State College to see what they have. That would be your best option I would think....but folks who live near Bismarck can chime in here.
As for the area of Steele....I am not familiar with that town...but it is close to Bismarck so for employment your best bet would be there. But I am sure there would be something in the town but just not familiar enough to point you in any direction. Bismarck as grown a lot in the past 5 years and along with many areas of the state have an employment shortage and would eagerly snap someone up. May not be a high paying job...as a lot of jobs in the state are lower paying than elsewhere but I would believe you could find something without too much trouble even without a degree. Not sure if it would be in Steele though. I hope others can help you out.
People from outside of the state are welcomed....no problems there at least from my perspective. As always in a small town especially the better you fit in the better you are accepted. But for the most part people in small towns are very happy to have new residents. Along as you are hard working...family man...and get along with others you will be fine.
I did not understand what you meant about state insurance...and healthcare is good but dont know anything about the VA as I am not a veteran.
Hope this helps some...
Dan