Okay,I am looking for some input can't figure out to go to Fargo,FC. need to relocate out of the south had enough

Fargo is in our pricerange an va hospital is there,FC.is expensive.Just want to do what is best for my family we have a twenty yr. son who is willing to go with mom an dad just want this to be a good move so any input would be nice not looking for utopia, but I am looking at where we can take walks an not have to look over my shoulder,an our son can drive his car without worry,when he gets another job I picked the two because ND has little crime,cold winters an FC. because I was born Colorado Springs an I have no clue what it is like now there is good people who don't judge you on your race, so far my husband has been called somian,my son looks indian an I look spanish an we are none of those

anyway open to opions from FC.or Fargo.