Losing my mind....
Hello to all, I recently became the owner of an 8 month old lab/newfoundland mix puppy named Jake. His previous owner didn't give me any information as to his normal routine and/or activies. By the way Jake acts, it seems as though he was kept outside for extended periods of time. I was not wanting an outside dog, I think that if you have a dog, you should have it inside with you, so you can be around him/her and give constant love and attention to. About a year ago, I helped my sister train her puppy, which she adopted at the age of 2 months. I thought I knew what I was doing, but Jake doesn't seem to agree with what I want.
I bought him a large crate in which he has room to grow, however, I put up the divider to limit his roaming space in there. I have to drag him to go into the crate, and once he is in there, all he does is bark and whine and use the crate as a porta-potty. He has not been 'fixed' yet, so he has a tendency to 'mark' things periodically... therefore, I do not want to leave him to roam freely at night when nobody is awake. How do I get him to accept the crate and be calm when he is in there? I have tried leaving him in there and ignoring him, I have tried treats and bribes... ugh, I don't know what to do.
Also, when he is inside, he doesn't bark or have a problem listening to me, but all he wants to do is whine and go outside. However, when I take him outside, all he does is whine to come back inside and lays down on the deck and does nothing but sleep. I would like for Jake to be an inside dog and become accustomed to life here at his new house, but am losing my mind and patience. I have waited a long time to bring a puppy home and realize that it is not going to be instant smoothe sailing, but I am going insane. The last couple nights, I have gotten maybe 2 hours of sleep each night (in half hour increments), and don't get any sleep until I put jake outside.
Any and all help/suggestions are greatly appreciated! I do not want to have to return Jake to his former owners and/or the pound, but if this keeps up, I won't really have a choice. I live in the country and have 5 acres for him to run around and have fun on, and I have plenty of love to offer him. I really think he could be happy here with me, he and I have already started to bond and he enjoys our 'cuddle time', but I want an inside dog... not an outside dog.
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