Originally Posted by nofearfactor
hey,HoneyBee-
you got it.its so cheap to live here.and clean.and safe.I live in the BrokenArrow area also.
there are places close to visit for mountains and ocean.
Arkansas and Colorado for mountains.Houston/Galveston area,the Gulf,for semi-ocean.
and going back home to California for visits is so easy to do.
the last time I went home,I took my wife and kids and we flew, we had to fly into Sacremento,rent a car,and drive up to Sonora.(usually when I go myself I try to make I-80 drives pretty much in a day.I always stop at this one truck stop just over the mountain from Wyoming,into Utah,for a short nap,then go on in.on the way back I can usually make it to SaltLakeCity,get a short nap,then maybe one more little nap somewhere in Wyoming or Nebraska.That trip thru Nebraska is BORING..).the trip with her was nice for me,and an awesome experience for my Okie born and bred wife and kids.shes well traveled but had never been to Cali other than getting to put a toe in the ocean when she was as a kid,then turning around and going home.Her father was an AmericanAirlines mechanic/inspector and had to work on a plane and took the whole family for a visit to Cali.they got to put one toe in the ocean,then get back to the airport to go back home to Oklahoma.That was her only visit.on our visit,she loved the drives in the mountains.then took her to San Fran.she got to go to the bridge,the ocean,lunch at Pier39,walked around Chinatown,etc.She loved Monterrey when we went out to visit my brother.Big Sur.Carmel to visit a buddy of mine.the Napa area and Carmel valley horseshoe for wine tasteings.went up and down Hwy1 and 101 for some drives.she didnt want to come back home.I got it tho.even tho she didnt suspect what I knew.it was nice for her to visit,but also nice to return to Okiehoma for her also.her life is here in Oklahoma and she would never be happy there,once the new wore off.some of the negatives others write about just didnt bother me I guess because I tend to take the good with the bad.I do that here also.and its more affordable here.
and Oklahoma people are super nice.most anyways.its weird for me to see people smile at you so much. and they say 'Thank you' and 'excuse me' alot here.weird for me.
Turlock.hehe.I used to have to drive down to Turlock from Sonora just to find a foosball table to play on.I would go to the mall or WorldMarket or Costco or whatever in Modesto for wants/needs then go over to Turlock before going home and play some foosball.
Merced for monster truck races.
Modesto for movies.I usually went to George Lucas's THX theatre downtown Modesto for my movies.
Jamestown for my motorcycle parts.
anyways.you'll love it here.its growing on me.I'm getting used to it and ***** about things less and less.one thing not to do is bring 'California snobbery' with you.hard to do."well,we had this,and we had that,in California",etcetc.you know the drill.Okies are receptive to outsiders better than Californians.true born and bred Californians HATE outsiders for some reason.most.but not all.they think people are taking something away from them when they move in there.like its their state,stay away.and now theyre the ones moving out as fast as the new people moving in.weird.
but now I know what it means to say,"nice to visit but wouldnt want to live there".I understand now...
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