You will find a lot to choose from here with what you mentioned.
If those ratings are important to you then as mentioned before, Papillion was rated
#6 in 2007 Money Magazine survey. It also has 10 miles from Bellevue where the Air Force base is so will have quite a few retired military - if that helps assimilation. There are some newer nice home areas and some more established. It also just received the
Business Week 2009 Best Affordable Suburb in Nebraska.
Of the metro area Papillion is probably the most reasonably taxed (can vary in some specific subdivisions outside the actual city limits - but that's true throughout the entire state - so understand if you are inside or outside a specific city corporate boundary and then find out what your city or SID tax levy is - can be a big difference when you cross that arbitrary line).
Second,
do you want Urban, Suburban or Rural? If....
- Urban then look more around mid-town such as Memorial Park and Dundee areas.
- Suburban then that would be Papillion or go further into West Omaha (say at least 162nd street).
- Rural then look around the Gretna/Ashland areas - some nice subdivisions that would fit the bill.