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Old 03-02-2009, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Orange County, California
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I check out a few places at 9PM last night:

McCormicks - Dead, maybe 3 people there
Houstons - 3 couples that looked to be in there 40s
Kisch Bar - Dead
Woodys Warf - 1/2 full, nice looking women.
Sharkees - Absolutely Packed but the women were all low class.

BTW- I am shopping in the age range of 20-30..
Why are you "shopping" in CA if you're from CO? BTW, maybe it's your approach that's attracting lower class (ie, "shopping")... Stop objectifying women, and maybe you'll meet one. You know, people aren't possessions.
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Old 07-09-2009, 02:49 PM
 
Location: City of the Angels
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I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned the Foxfire in Anaheim Hills. It has a serious reputation for picking up chicks.
FoxFire Restaurant
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Old 07-13-2009, 05:12 PM
 
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Do "quality" working women exist in OC? If so, I would like to know where
they frequent?? Does anyone have any suggestions for where the
young professional women go to meet professional men? The blonde bimbos
from typical bars like Sutra are fun to look at but that's about all you
get from them. (Besides the attitude and being treated like a human
wallet..)

Signed-
Human Wallet #5,163,320 from Irvine

A woman is good, where there is a good man...
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Old 07-13-2009, 07:14 PM
 
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The dude wanted females in their 20s and 30s; females at Foxfire tend to be hmm..., a lil' on the older side. Generally, meeting people through other people is a good way to go. Hang out with some quality people, and they're bound to introduce you to other quality people who may be single. And maybe one will catch your eye. The bar scene gets old after a while and a lot of places in South County are often frequented by people not from the area. Nothing wrong with that, but I noticed that these people tend to act ridiculously pretentious and "stuck up" as if all people from the area are stuck up.

I'd say avoid, the bars; make some good friends and connections, and you'll meet someone.
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Old 07-18-2009, 03:08 PM
 
Location: East Side
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Tom wants to meet women. Maybe women do not want to meet Tom. Lose the shopping idea. Treat women with respect and not as people after your wallet. Good grief we make our own money. At least where Im from we do. Interesting psyche in the OC when it comes to the material world.
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Old 07-28-2009, 08:08 AM
 
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Tom wants to meet women. Maybe women do not want to meet Tom. Lose the shopping idea. Treat women with respect and not as people after your wallet. Good grief we make our own money. At least where Im from we do. Interesting psyche in the OC when it comes to the material world.

:-)
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Old 08-01-2009, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Vancouver, WA
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Tom wants to meet women. Maybe women do not want to meet Tom. Lose the shopping idea. Treat women with respect and not as people after your wallet. Good grief we make our own money. At least where Im from we do. Interesting psyche in the OC when it comes to the material world.
Yeah, I have to agree. Time for a whole new approach and pardigm shift. Definately lose the shopping mentality. Intelligent women are very intuitive and pick up on crap like that right away. Also looking for love in bars is probably the least effective place to meet quality professional women - like sand through one's fingers.

My recommendation is to work on being a quality man first. Take a class, attend a church, join social groups related to an area of your own interest like skiing, hiking, photography, etc... or volunteer somewhere for a worthy cause as was mentioned before. Try to put yourself in their shoes for a moment. What do you imagine these quality young women to be doing in their spare time anyway? Most certainly not hanging out in bars just waiting for someone to come along and hit on them. You will continue finding more of the same. Almost any other approach would be better IMO. Even an online dating service would be better. Although it doesn't always work, my brother-in-law met his wife online.

My 2c,

Derek
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Old 08-02-2009, 04:07 AM
 
Location: Malibu/Miami Beach
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Find some sort of legal problem and then let all those cute lawyers help you out.
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Old 08-03-2009, 12:30 PM
 
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Admittedly, I don't know too much about "professional" women since most of the ones I've met are amateurs. Do you want to get banged or do you want a relationship? If you're looking for women in their 20s take a class or join a group that meets at a local college or university. If you're "born-again", many Christian churches have singles groups. Or start attending services and get involved at a church of your faith. The bar scene is amusing but too disperse here in OC. Working on yourself is always good but don't go overboard. Get one nice expensive outfit, and wear an expensive watch. So many of my wife's single or divorced friends have such high expectations that a man with Brad Pitt's looks, the Dalai Lama's spirtuality and Warren Buffet's money still wouldn't satisfy them.
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Old 08-10-2009, 06:21 AM
 
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So many of my wife's single or divorced friends have such high expectations that a man with Brad Pitt's looks, the Dalai Lama's spirtuality and Warren Buffet's money still wouldn't satisfy them.

I'm very modest with small expectations. These three combinations are fine with me...
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