well, i'm sorry you misunderstood me. no, i don't go around voicing my opinions as you may imagine. but i did work in a place where their religion was constantly on and i was expected to participate.. when i didn't, i was treated terribly.. i have respect for whatever anyone chooses to believe, i believe it is a personal choice and should not be used against a person in a work place... or in a town for that matter.
you speak of no jobs.. when i look at the data, the unemployment rate is low compared to where i am living.. and the wages are higher than were i am living. at least, the 'median' wage shown on city-data is higher..
perhaps we are just very different people, because when i hear someone say they are falling for a place, i think that they are finding in their research things that they like about the place... i don't think that they haven't done any research and who knows why they are falling for it..
i've spent literally a year researching where i want to live, settle in.. and stay for the rest of my life.. i had one place in mind, until i found southern oregon.. it fits everything i desire in a place to live out my life.. but i needed to know if it was evangelical as it is down here in the south.. until you live in a small evangelical town, you just cannot know what it is like. every third commercial on the tv is a commercial of religion. LOL.. the stores don't open on sunday mornings.. and if you wind up working in a small company that is headed by evangelical baptists, and you aren't of that belief, then you are shunned.
here's a typical of the people i worked with.. when new orleans was devastated by the hurricane.. they thought that was what they deserved for all the 'sin' there.. and.. what a lot of people don't know is that many of the churches in the hurricane area that were trying to help, would not take extra cots, food, clothing from the red cross because if they did.. they wouldn't be able to 'evangelize' and try to convert these now homeless lost everything people to their belief by giving them food and shelter along with a sermon.
so.. yes, i am concerned about where i live in regards to mindset.. and from everything i've read here, i do not believe grants pass is like it is here. but is more diverse in various beliefs and much much more tolerant.
i welcome anyone giving me a gods blessing.. and i god bless everyone in turn.. but i do have morals that do not include what i have seen and experienced first hand down here with these fanatics.
thank you for your time and i apologize if i was off base with what i was reading of your words.. you just never seem to have anything positive to say about the town. i could say that about where i live, but my grief is only with the mindset.. the town here is lovely.. and the cost of living isn't too high, houses are cheap. but, last i heard this state is low on the national list of good education, high on the list for teenage pregnancy and 2nd in the nation for unemployment.
grants pass has much more to offer than here..
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Originally Posted by ladysrodgers
I didn't see you say anything other than you're falling in love with it, no comments either way. That's why I questioned what you said.
It seems like your complaint is being around people with religious convictions. If that's the case, you might have a problem with Grants Pass. It's not quite as you described above, but if you go around voicing what you did above, to people in Grants Pass, I doubt you'll have a hearty reception.
I don't know how to copy the rest of the portion of your reply, or I would address your comments there.
I don't have a grudge against Oregon at all.....it's just an economically depressed region with few job possibilities. And, what few jobs are there, don't pay squat.
The only thing the state has going for it, is it's beauty, and that will be gone before too many years, due to over-development. Medford is far from a beautiful city though. It's brown, has smog, the streets are poorly laid out, has way too many one way streets, and is dirty looking, has a high crime rate, has a zillion meth freaks, etc., etc., etc.
Grants Pass is greener, but has even fewer job opportunities, it does have the meth problem, and the crime rate is high. It has a high unemployment rate at 9.2%.
From what your original post stated, it doesn't sound like you would get along any better with the people there than where you're coming from.
And no, same sex marriages aren't legal.
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