Winter Haven is a great area, full of older neighborhoods and shopping areas with plenty of restaurants. They have a great bowling alley there as well.
The alligators will not usually harm you unless it is mating season at which time you are advised by signs posted to be cautious and stay away from known mating areas. So your little chicken nuggets should be fairly safe
I'm not familiar with the names of the older neighborhoods if they even have any, however you have a nice selection to chose from. The nightlife might not be too strong in Winter Haven but you have Lakeland and Orlando not too far away with more "Happening" things going on for you.
Dundee is more rural and Winter Haven is more city type, however the taxes and home prices are probably cheaper in Dundee.
Disney is only about 30 min. away from Winter Haven, and more opportunity for employment in Lakeland is about 30 minutes in the opposite direction.
Winter Haven has just about everything you would need, it's a nice older town with lots of character and old buildings. Good luck and try to keep warm
