Do you have a David's Bridal? They have great prices and size selection. I needed a small size and they had it when other places didn't, so it seems they have all the sizes. I hear ya on the short bit...I'm 5'2...we're short but sweet
Also, have you ever thought of getting a dress made for you? That way, you won't have to have a store-bought dress altered for you and you can have it made with details that you like (secret pockets, etc.) and be more likely to wear it again
BTW, traditional bridal shops' lines of dresses are Euro-sized, meaning they run super small. For instance, I am normally a size 4 dress. Well, I had to order a size 10 according to the bridal store. I compared the measurements and knew the sizing charts for non-bridal dresses and was shocked, but I went with it...It did fit LOL. My friend is a regular size 10-12 and she had to order a size 22 in her dress. Isn't that just crazy?
Too bad you don't live by me, I know a great seamstress/dressmaker.
Hope it goes well...I want to see wedding pics!
Hugs,
L