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My Dad had already passed away, I was at my brothers funeral when I was 15 years old, my Mother said to me "most of the tears at a funeral are for things left unsaid and things left undone".I've always remembered this
One my my Dad's was to remind me that "90% of the people you tell your problems to don't care no matter how much they fake caring, 9% are glad you have your problems, and 1% care. Don't confuse who your friends really are"
On understanding people's motivations, he often repeated Hanlon's Razor: "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." I'll tell you, truer words were rarely spoken.
On marriage, his advice was "never marry a girl who takes more than double your time to get ready to go somewhere, or you'll resent here when you're older".
And this one I think much of his generation said to their kids...when we'd ask for something outlandish, he'd say "do you want a pony with that too?". We knew it was a lost cause once he said that.
Thought of another one: NRA, as in "Never Refuse Anything." Dad liked getting anything for free. And when I was well into my 30s, and he was still sneaking $20 bills into my duffel bag when I came for a visit, I'd get all mature and independent and say "But Dad ..." and he'd say "Come on, now, NRA ..."
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