Todays question Thursday 3-27-08

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Originally Posted by AksarbeN

Mike has to spend too much time in his room , we need to find a Mrs. Mike that is willing to also spend time in there with him and be married. A gal that likes to fly big aircraft, and shoot big gun would be nice. LOL

I agree, Askar, that the key factor is people need to be compatible for a good relationship. Sometimes people can be the best of friends in many ways and as soon as any intimacy hits, things start going bitter. I know the 'm' word scares me too, Ive been too single for too long and have adapted very well to not commiting because I like the freedom of being sparatic, spur-of-the-moment.. Again, the key word is 'compatibility'. (.

[Magnum Mike]

Originally Posted by Blueberry

<Hmmm . . . Blueberry is wondering if she should dust off her matchmaking skills. She already has someone in mind . . . Definitely can't go public with her thoughts . . . Hmmm . . . >
(Normally I'd say, "BE VERY AFRAID," but I think this could actually work!)

Mike, it sounds like you are a wise man. It's definitely better to be content as a single person than settle for less than the Lord's best. Just as a warning, though, I've known lots of people that said they found their mate once they became content being single. Don't know if that will encourage you or scare you!



P.S. Are you perhaps using the "M" word too soon? I know that would make me go running to the hills!

Thanks Blueberry.

Yes, there were a couple of instances, where I have used the "M" word "too soon", but mainly in conversations to let them know that I am a devout Christian, and not interested in the world's ways of relationsips, but how God told us about courting, relationships, and marriage.

I have joined a company that matches single Christians a couple of months ago, but I haven't gotten anywhere yet, and I'm sure it's going to take time. I paid about $1400 to join, but from what I've seen so far, I got the impression they're in it for the money, even though they do say that they have an 85% success rate. I'll just have to wait and see I guess.

If it's not meant for me to be married, then I'll accept it.

[Magnum Mike]

Originally Posted by AksarbeN

Mike has to spend too much time in his room , we need to find a Mrs. Mike that is willing to also spend time in there with him and be married. A gal that likes to fly big aircraft, and shoot big gun would be nice. LOL

LOL.. Gee thanks Aksarben, but I don't about shooting big guns while flying big aircraft at 36,000 feet... Hopefully she knows all about safe gun handling!

[Magnum Mike]

Originally Posted by Power Surge

I agree, Askar, that the key factor is people need to be compatible for a good relationship
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I know the 'm' word scares me too, Ive been too single for too long and have adapted very well to not commiting because I like the freedom of being sparatic, spur-of-the-moment.. Again, the key word is 'compatibility'. (.

On compatability - But, in some aspects opposites do attract. There are very rare instances where 2 people are 100% compatible, that's were compromise comes into play.