Heartbreak, Revenge.. and how to get over it all (woman, fun, open)

[plaidmom]

I often include a gay boyfriend in my mix of male companions

http://www.ryantown.com/gayboyfriend/

[tet tea]

Sometimes you've just got to kiss a bunch of warty toads before you meet your Prince Charming.

Get up and get out. No point in dwelling, do you think he is? Hell no!

I agree with Rance "their loss, your gain."

[DeLaSalle]

Originally Posted by Cosmic

That is only going to work with two wimps and one stud, anything else and you aren't going to get any stability at all, as she calls it. The better men will not play that game and will figure it out quick. Some men can pull off that type game, not too many women can.

If you are going to play around with three guys, be prepared to bang them all, they probably can live with that situation.

I just noticed what you said lol...

[DeLaSalle]

Originally Posted by ellie

What's wrong with the wimps or whatever? I often include a gay boyfriend in my mix of male companions, simply because I'm not interested in sleeping with three men. But I enjoy male company. (and certain forthright women) And let's say I have a scrawny school teacher friend or like spending time with an accountant or civil engineer who's not exactly "studly" but he's smart as hell and a good conversationalist. My stud muffin isn't always the one I want to be seen with at an art opening. And muffin may not be the one who can give me the best business advice.

But honestly, I don't want to be married to any one of them right this minute.

What the woman needs is a boost in her self esteem and to realize she doesn't need to hang her hat on just one tree.

You Really get around Girl...

[KewGee]

I found this poem many years ago (author unknown) and thought it was really a good one.


AFTER A WHILE.....

After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul.

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security.

And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises.

And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head up and your eyes open

With the grace of a woman,
Not the grief of a child.

And you learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.

After awhile you learn that even sunshine
Burns if you get too much.

So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure,
That you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.
and you learn and learn,

With every good-bye you learn.

[Crew Chief]

Old German proverb: "There's not just a handful; there's a whole land-full"

[spagirl]

[quote=KewGee;497394]I found this poem many years ago (author unknown) and thought it was really a good one.

BEAUTIFUL POEM -- I WROTE IT IN MY JOURNAL!

[KewGee]

[quote=spagirl;500916]

Originally Posted by KewGee

I found this poem many years ago (author unknown) and thought it was really a good one.

BEAUTIFUL POEM -- I WROTE IT IN MY JOURNAL!

Thanks. I carry it in my wallet. It surely makes so much sense and if we all learn to follow what it says, how happy we will be.

[mystree]

Just think of it as making room in your life for the RIGHT one.Anyhow,it's better to find out now instead of years and several children later.And I do believe everything happens for a reason.

[MysteryDriver]

Originally Posted by ellie

You gotta get a few new boyfriends, three to be exact. One, and he's the rebound victim, two and you're cheating on one, three and you're dating around, no problems, no attachments.

It works wonderfully because you never put too much pressure on any of them, and even if they don't know you're seeing other men, they sense that they should be feeling jealous. Men are happiest when they are pursuing something, when they've caught you, they get bored.

By finding a few nice boyfriends, two for movies and drinks and maybe one you like the idea of sleeping with, then you keep them all wanting more.

You will feel like the queen of it all. Now this is hard to maintain, so don't expect perfect stability, but what you need now is an ego boost to get over the loser who messed you up.

What a Catch you are