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I have a bad nose job that I got in 2005 that has destroyed what little looks I had and ruined my self confidence. I am not vain; I got the surgery because I am 5'1" and weigh what I weighed as a teenager. A big bulbous over projected nose is not a great look when you are over 30 and wear a size 0. Anyway, I have a good friend, or he was a good friend, who has used the situation to humiliate me. He was against the surgery and thought I should accept being ugly. He goes out of his way to remind me that how unattractive I am. I can't afford a revision and will probably have to end the friendship, which will leave me more or less friendless.
I have a bad nose job that I got in 2005 that has destroyed what little looks I had and ruined my self confidence. I am not vain; I got the surgery because I am 5'1" and weigh what I weighed as a teenager. A big bulbous over projected nose is not a great look when you are over 30 and wear a size 0. Anyway, I have a good friend, or he was a good friend, who has used the situation to humiliate me. He was against the surgery and thought I should accept being ugly. He goes out of his way to remind me that how unattractive I am. I can't afford a revision and will probably have to end the friendship, which will leave me more or less friendless.
Sweetie, with friends like that, its better to be friendless..what a crock..You need to find some small things that you like about yourself. there ARE things. There are probably a lot of things about you that are great that others see that you don't. Beauty truly comes from the inside..Please try to love yourself, until you do, you are going to feel this way..please vent anytime, and YOU do count
I have a bad nose job that I got in 2005 that has destroyed what little looks I had and ruined my self confidence. I am not vain; I got the surgery because I am 5'1" and weigh what I weighed as a teenager. A big bulbous over projected nose is not a great look when you are over 30 and wear a size 0. Anyway, I have a good friend, or he was a good friend, who has used the situation to humiliate me. He was against the surgery and thought I should accept being ugly. He goes out of his way to remind me that how unattractive I am. I can't afford a revision and will probably have to end the friendship, which will leave me more or less friendless.
I am afraid he was never a friend to begin with. A real friend does not humiliate you. They should support you no matter what. Even if he did not agree with your decision, it was still yours to make.
Friends build you up...they don't knock you down. Get out there are find some true ones! Good luck to you!
I have a bad nose job that I got in 2005 that has destroyed what little looks I had and ruined my self confidence. I am not vain; I got the surgery because I am 5'1" and weigh what I weighed as a teenager. A big bulbous over projected nose is not a great look when you are over 30 and wear a size 0. Anyway, I have a good friend, or he was a good friend, who has used the situation to humiliate me. He was against the surgery and thought I should accept being ugly. He goes out of his way to remind me that how unattractive I am. I can't afford a revision and will probably have to end the friendship, which will leave me more or less friendless.
You've heard the saying: "With a friend like that, who needs an enemy?" Label this person as toxic and change your focus elsewhere. You never know where a real friend might be.
I am going to vent about men today. Respectfully of course. Ur gender can be so shallow... I go to the gym all natural ready to workout. I am not there to pick up. I have a job to do and I do it. I know when I arrive I don't look like a beauty queen, but I am friendly, polite and a human being to all. Well I had to leave all dressed up, make up hair and really nice attire. I come out and the attendant at the door engages me in polite conversation after his mouth closes upon seeing me dressed for my other life. He has seen me a thousand times and said nothing. Another man who is indifferent to me and may even look the other way so he won't have to say good morning opens the door for me and says have a nice day. I am the same person- just gussied up a little. I don't care how u look. I speak to u. I hold the door and encourage u in ur workout even if ur bottom is bigger than mine and ur old and gray. Men r so shallow...
I am going to vent about a very rude women I told off in the movies last night. She kept talking, so I asked her if she mind and of course she did mind. I said she should shut her mouth- yes it was very uncharacteristic for me to respond in this way and the situation could have gone very badly. I ending of leaving and looking her in the face and tell her she's a rude female dog. I don't know what came over me. I am typically more cautious and mature than that. People r crazy and u never know what they might do. Of course I have been working out and I think in a fair fight I could at least hold my own, but I despise that kind of a thing. I would never fight... I am not sure if I am venting about her bad behavior or my inappropriate response. However, I am venting....
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