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Roaddog · 05-03-2009, 08:20 AM

Early this morning Dad passed away, we didn't think this would happen so fast, he woke up in pain so my mom called 911, he was in so much pain, the doctors couldn't save him, I've never been so hurt in my life. i miss him so much.

toosie · 05-03-2009, 08:31 AM

Oh I'm so sorry - my condolences to you and your family. My heart goes out to you. Know that many of us here are sending you comfort and hugs.

Gaffer · 05-03-2009, 08:32 AM

So, so sorry to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your mom and family.
There is little that can be said to ease your pain, but at least your dad is at peace and free from suffering now.
Take care!

mystree · 05-03-2009, 08:38 AM

So sorry to hear about your loss,you are in our thoughts and prayers.

bebette · 05-03-2009, 08:42 AM

Oh Roaddog, I am so sorry!!! There are no words that can take away your pain, but just know that you have many people praying for you and that we are here for you 24/7!!

Cyber Munchkin · 05-03-2009, 08:44 AM

My condolences and heart goes out to you roaddog....I'm so sorry!
My thoughts and prayers for you and your family are deeply with you all!!
May God be with you and family in His peace, bringing comfort in your pain, for what this day has brought upon you and family in the loss of your precious father!

yukiko11 · 05-03-2009, 08:53 AM

roaddog- another life has completed it's cycle. Your dad is no longer in pain, but he see's you, I promise. Hold your mom and your family close to you and thank God he was part of your life and created you. Now is the time that you have to heal. You will. That is also built into the human spirit.
There is a psalm in the bible that paraphrased says " Blessed men pass through the valley of Baca and having dug a well the rain came."
The translation of valley of Baca is valley of Tears.
Everyone has to walk through that valley alone.
No one knows how long the journey will take.
But, if every day you do something positive (dig a well) your healing will happen (the rain will come).

Repeat this to your Mom and look around the house for a small container or box. Tell her that as she walkes through the valley and her burden becomes too hard to bear, place it in the box and rest for awhile until she is ready to take it up again. After her journey is through, tell her to put her most precious memories into the box where they will always be when she needs them.

Thank you for the priviledge of being able to shed tears for you.

Nomadicus · 05-03-2009, 08:53 AM

More prayers for you and your family roaddog. I traveled the same road as you only many years ago. The pain will ease in time and the good memories will surface for you to cling to. I have no words that can changes things only words to tell you that I as another CD family member are fully supporting you in this tragic time of need.

VillageLife · 05-03-2009, 08:57 AM

Roaddog,we are a great support group here.Whatever you need when you are not happy,do it!
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family!
Your father is not in pain anymore.

Charley · 05-03-2009, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Roaddog

Early this morning Dad passed away, we didn't think this would happen so fast, he woke up in pain so my mom called 911, he was in so much pain, the doctors couldn't save him, I've never been so hurt in my life. i miss him so much.

Roaddog, please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your Dad. May the comfort of loved ones and friends help you and your family through this very difficult time.