What to do with the gross neighbors.... (the best, children, picture)

[Lisa_from_Debary]

Originally Posted by momof2dfw

If anyone can see me in my hot tub, pool or laying out then they are the ones w/ a problem as w/ the large privacy fence and landscaping that I have they would have to go to great lengths to see me or even hear me. So me and hubby sitting in the hot tub enjoying each other is THAT BAD! LOL!!! No one said we were having sex in it either and I don't make that much noise . It is not like we are in public, at a public pool or in the front yard. Geez. A private backyard is that, private. If it is a "private" backyard in the firstplace.

I'm sorry, I should have been more clear, I'm not saying your scenario but the situation that Skoe speaks of...People that are having sex in a backyard where children can hear them in the house right next door...

[GreggB]

Originally Posted by 7th generation

Oh and by the way- I live in such a remote area that I could go all day with no clothes on and no one would see me.

Don't be too sure of that. With all the spying (Most Illegal) that our own government is doing on it's own cititzens, they might have a sattelite looking down right on your "Back Forty"!! Or Alberto Gonzales might be perched on a local hilltop with a pair of high powered binoculars. Well--just as long as CHENEY ain't hunting on your property--ya should be allright!!

[junkman18]

Originally Posted by skoe

We have 3 windows on the back of our house on the second floor that face the side of the house behind us. 2 of my kids rooms and the master bathroom. Our neighbors have a hot tub in the corner of their yard that we can see into from the windows.

Well, the other night I was at one of the windows and I heard sex noises. Very loud and very close. I looked out the window and there was the 18 year old neighbor girl having sex with her boyfriend in the hot tub. I ran to my sons rooms to make sure their windows were closed. My older son was laying on his bed reading with the window open !!
I told him to close his window and he said, "don't worry mom the daughter and mother do it with their boyfriends in the hot tub a lot, I just ignore them"........

According to him they have been doing this since they moved into the house 2 years ago. He said it grossed him out when he first heard them but whatever.

How do I let these people know that they are polluting my kids mind and that one of these days my 6 year old son may be up late and hear them as well? I don't need him to hear that, it's awful enough that my older son hears it. I don't want to personally confront them because this is a very close neighborhood and I don't like to be in confrontation with any neighbor. Her house is situated so she has 5 neighbors. I am surprised no one else has heard them, they are very loud.

What would you do???

can I come over for a look

[Lisa_from_Debary]

Originally Posted by GreggB

Don't be too sure of that. With all the spying (Most Illegal) that our own government is doing on it's own cititzens, they might have a sattelite looking down right on your "Back Forty"!! Or Alberto Gonzales might be perched on a local hilltop with a pair of high powered binoculars. Well--just as long as CHENEY ain't hunting on your property--ya should be allright!!

Interesting that you mention this, I used the map feature on Google and then pulled up a satelite image of the house I lived in, in Texas...you could see the hole my ex-husband dug in the backyard to make a sand box for my daughter...that was 6 years ago that he dug that hole...and you could still see it from space...imagine how much more sophisticated pictures the government can get??

[FL_TN_Nana]

All this makes me really happy for the neighbors I have and the fact that I live on 1/2 acre lot! We're the ones with a hot tub but just talking about more than one couple doing the deed in the same hot tub makes me feel yukky.

And, yeah, what's up with death caused by coitus under water? I don't believe that for a minute unless she drowned.

[mal_flisk]

If it weren't for the kids, I get a spotlight on them and set up a few friends with beers and cheer them on. After the first couple of times, I'm sure at least the noise would become a thing of the past.

[canibeyou]

5 pages into this and all I can say is

[fuzzymystic]

Originally Posted by mal_flisk

If it weren't for the kids, I get a spotlight on them and set up a few friends with beers and cheer them on. After the first couple of times, I'm sure at least the noise would become a thing of the past.

Or you might get an invitation!!

[zorst]

Why don't you talk to them? You might tell them something like, " You must enjoy your hot tub. I hear they are great." Give them a pause for them to go on about the brand, model number, type of cleaning junk they use.

Then say "I know they must be fun because I hear you making love and your daughter making love in it all the time. I have a concern. May I say it?" If they say "No." say "I'm going to say it anyway. What concerns me is, my nine year old is too young to be seeing or hearing the making of love. I'm wondering what I should do to protect his innocent mind from your love making? My 18 year old just tunes it out but my 9 year old is not old enough to know of such things." Say it in a way like you and they are best buddies. If they react with a bunch of curse words just walk away. Then I'd give consideration to some of Rance's suggestions...

If you do it calmly and cooly what's the worst that could happen? All this sneaking around stuff makes me laugh. Why are you afraid of some young kid not much older than your son? In fact that's the guy you might approach first. If he's the man of the house he's probably got the ear of the other two women.

[doc1]

Get your neighbors together and right after the grand finale, blow an air horn and hold up some scorecards like they use in the Olympics.