U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Parenting
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 1.5 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Jump to a detailed profile or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Business Search - 14 Million verified businesses
Search for:  near: 
 
 
Old 07-30-2010, 06:44 PM
 
Location: Canada
3,435 posts, read 1,253,525 times
Reputation: 2186

Advertisements

I thought this was either going to be a thread about the duggars or that you were asking opinions of mothers with 18 or more kids.
Quick reply to this message

 
Old 07-30-2010, 07:06 PM
 
Location: Orlando, Florida
43,861 posts, read 27,786,811 times
Reputation: 58139
I think if your daughter is almost 18 and she is still asking your permission to do anything.....you did something right and should trust her judgment.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 07:50 PM
 
22,207 posts, read 13,014,885 times
Reputation: 23812
If you trust her I would absolutely give it a go. The first one of these is the hardest. (For Mom. LOL) Send her off with your blessings and hopes that she has a good time. (Within reason. )
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 08:08 PM
 
47,585 posts, read 35,922,569 times
Reputation: 21593
I wouldn't -- I'd let her ride down with the adult when he goes if you know and like him.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 08:09 PM
 
7,772 posts, read 9,343,212 times
Reputation: 13814
It would depend. If the group going is paired off as couples I would be leery. If it was a group going as "friends", I would feel more comfortable. I let my kids go away at the same age, but the kids weren't really couples, just good friends.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
26,482 posts, read 17,826,841 times
Reputation: 31680
Do what we did. We hosted a meeting at our home for girls and their parents to lay down ground rules, what was expected, what would not be tolerated and made sure everybody was on the same page. how finances would be divided, what to do in emergency and everybody was OK since we all knew what was going on. It all went off without a hitch-as far as we know.
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 08:56 PM
 
Location: California
25,619 posts, read 17,159,100 times
Reputation: 18132
Jr year of highschool my daughter went on a overnight camping trip after the Prom (she went with a Sr boy). It's sort of a school tradition. They were 3 hours away and there were no adults, just a group of the kids themselevs who were all 17-18. I knew most of the kids and she wasn't exactly "coupled up" but anyone who was didn't need a camping trip to get together (it's not exactly a spectator sport anyway) so I wasn't worried about it.

Last edited by Ceece; 07-30-2010 at 09:29 PM..
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Unknown. Where am I? Am I lost?
5,515 posts, read 3,318,206 times
Reputation: 2449
I would.
If she is going to be 18 why not?
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 10:50 PM
 
852 posts, read 715,312 times
Reputation: 1026
I'm actually more comfortable with it because the boyfriend is going along. I would be less comfortable if it was a group of girls going alone who might then attract boys they don't know (think Van Der Sloot).
Quick reply to this message
 
Old 07-30-2010, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Peoples Republic of Cali
9,595 posts, read 4,860,704 times
Reputation: 5400
She'll be 18 in a month anyway, let her go, You did a good job just by the fact that she asked.....At 18 she's gone anyway, to college or get's a job and moves out...
Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


 
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:
Over $84,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Parenting

All times are GMT -6.

2005-2014, Advameg, Inc.

City-Data.com - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 - Top