Bashing your own child on facebook (legal, teens, 14 year old, school)

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by Momma_bear

This is the PARENTING forum. Are there even any moderators on this forum? Get this off this forum. It does not belong here.

I'm sorry you and your mother have a poor relationship. Your mother sounds like a witch with a b and you sound like a 5 year old.

Ahh, poor girl. This thread was in the relationships forum. Apparently, it has been moved.

[AnonChick]

So they didn't want it over there either huh?

Oh I know - move it to the Entertainment forum! That's where it really belongs anyway, under "post-teen angst melodrama"

[no kudzu]

if every one would refrain from commenting on any of her posts maybe she will go away.

[Hopes]

Originally Posted by txtqueen

I wasn't harping on the cook.
I asked what was for dinner and she said,"fish".
Then I asked "And?" inquisitively...not rudely, not with a tone...it was a sincere question.

Consider yourself lucky she told you fish. When we were children and asked our mother, "what's for dinner?" she would respond "poison and slop."

Even if you didn't have a tone, repeating "and?" again was immature. Surely, you know how to form complete sentences. The very act of repeating the word "And?" over again is rude. I don't believe for a minute that the second time wasn't said with an attitude. Afterall, you admit to stewing in silence before repeating it again.

Regardless, it is a rude question to ask now that you are an adult. If someone invites you to dinner, you don't ask them what they are serving.

How are your moving out plans coming along? You really need to move. It's time to go out on your own. You and your mother can't have a healthy relationship living together.

[Hopes]

Originally Posted by omigawd

oh, and saying "And.....?" is extremely rude. You could have said "fish? sounds good. what else are we having?" or "what type of vegetable?" or something like that. Saying "and....?" is just obnoxious.

Totally agree. As I said, she knows how to form complete sentences. But now that she's an adult, she shouldn't even be asking what's for dinner to begin with.

[cl723]

txtqueen, like others have said, move out. Unfriend your mother from Facebook. My question to you is why don`t you move out from your mothers house? There is a reason why you refuse to do this and there is a reason why you refuse to go no contact with your mother and sib. What is your reason?

[tamajane]

YouTube - Dude Where's My Car (And Then?)

[cl723]

Your mother is a full blown narcissist. Same for your brother. You cannot expect her to be a normal mother because she is not. The things that you describe of her is typical of a narcissist. So of course she trashes you on facebook because that is her nature to do so. A normal mother would love their child, not treat their child like a piece of garbage.Your mother treats you like a piece of garbage. I hope one day you`ll get tired of it and go no contact with her. And your brother.

[strawflower]

Originally Posted by cl723

Your mother is a full blown narcissist. Same for your brother. You cannot expect her to be a normal mother because she is not. The things that you describe of her is typical of a narcissist. So of course she trashes you on facebook because that is her nature to do so. A normal mother would love their child, not treat their child like a piece of garbage.Your mother treats you like a piece of garbage. I hope one day you`ll get tired of it and go no contact with her. And your brother.

Not to hijack the thread, but I'm curious. What's with the backward (`) apostrophes?

[cl723]

Another thing I want to add is that when she called you crazy and a narcissist, she was just projecting herself on you. They all do this. When in fact, SHE is the one who is crazy and the narcissist. Your life will continue to be full of chaos and abuse until you leave this situation and have nothing to do with her.