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Old 09-27-2010, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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This whole thing sounds like a figment of someone's imagination to me. If you are on the up and up, then my opinion is it's creepy for you to involve yourself in the sex life of your son and his friend in any way.
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Old 09-27-2010, 08:49 PM
 
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My neighboring woman, a divorcee, is 46 and somewhat attractive. During this summer she spent much time in her yard whenever my son (19) was out, cutting grass, or something else. Our yards are separated by a row of low bushes so they can easily see each other. She wears bikinis and suns herself close to the bushes. Twice she removed the top. My son looks at her many times. His friend (18) comes over and they both like to be in the yard when she is out. That woman drools whenever she sees both. A few days ago she playfully asked them what color panties she should wear to go with her tan.
Last week she suggested to me that she could give them the 'education about the sensual pleasures of life' both need. All for free! I thought about it and think it's a good idea. Why not? She's experienced and could provide my son and his friend a very unique experience. I'm just about ready to tell her it's okay. Who knows, maybe she'll 'educate' me as well.
Yah sure. After this stunning turn of affairs you immediately decided to write the good folks of CD to see if they would be impressed. Way to go! It is so totally believable since it is well known that older Divorce's always request parental approval before having sex with young men.

Nice try you got some to fall for it.
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Old 09-27-2010, 08:50 PM
 
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Hmm. So -- either Puritan frustration or commodified, mechanical sex. No other options? What a depressing choice. Some "education", my foot. More like a recipe for a miserable marriage down the road.
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Old 09-27-2010, 08:50 PM
 
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this is one of those "fantasy" threads, right?
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Old 09-27-2010, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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I would be really creeped-out with my Dad helping to orchestrate my sex-life. Call me a product of my American culture, I guess.

I have to ask, though, I don't know your story, but are you going to tell your son's mother? If so, maybe she and the woman can have a "friendly" chat about how this should all go down (pun sort of intended).
Mother lives about 300 miles away. And the boy is already 19. If he wants to tell her that's his decision, not mine. He probably will not.
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Old 09-27-2010, 08:55 PM
 
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I'm sure you've heard of fathers taking their sons to prostitutes. But that's a brief business affair, not much for education.
Yes, and that is equally vile.
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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Yes, and that is equally vile.
Many men patronize prostitutes, since ages. I'll agree that it's a shallow business deal, nothing more and not worth the money. What's so vile about that? Both are consenting adults.
An offer without money seems more genuine. BTW, I'm an atheist and raise my son to question everything, including society's moral values.
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:46 PM
 
Location: A Yankee in northeast TN
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BTW, I'm an atheist and raise my son to question everything, including society's moral values.
And he's still "uneducated" after 19 years of exposure to that?
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:48 PM
 
Location: PRC
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It seems that people are so willing to place their own morals on someone else. Vile, creepy are all judgements of this situation (whether true or not) which I am sure you all think are good for an honest and upright society.

A lot of this stuff comes down to culture and how we have been brought up since there are many cultures where it is perfectly OK to marry a girl of 13, but many of us would be outraged in our own countries.

Basically, it takes all kinds to make a world and many would say "what kind of world are we heading towards where these morals are prevalent".

There is no answer to this question but there are many different opinions and many come from religious backgrounds.

What I would say however, is that similar to having relationships at work, sometimes after they have ended, they are too close for comfort and produce bad feelings. I believe the saying is that "You dont **** on your own doorstep".
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Old 09-27-2010, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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My neighboring woman, a divorcee, is 46 and somewhat attractive. During this summer she spent much time in her yard whenever my son (19) was out, cutting grass, or something else. Our yards are separated by a row of low bushes so they can easily see each other. She wears bikinis and suns herself close to the bushes. Twice she removed the top. My son looks at her many times. His friend (18) comes over and they both like to be in the yard when she is out. That woman drools whenever she sees both. A few days ago she playfully asked them what color panties she should wear to go with her tan.
Last week she suggested to me that she could give them the 'education about the sensual pleasures of life' both need. All for free! I thought about it and think it's a good idea. Why not? She's experienced and could provide my son and his friend a very unique experience. I'm just about ready to tell her it's okay. Who knows, maybe she'll 'educate' me as well.
this sounds like the beginning to a great porno, and also to some fun times for your son.

god damn I wish I had attractive easy neighbors when I was growing up
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