What would you do if you caught your teen having sex (punish, teenage)

[raggy491]

Originally Posted by hothulamaui

I would make sure my daughter was on birth control and visit the doc for STD testing. a parent shouldn't hide their head in the sand if they are having sex at home you better believe she is having sex elsewhere. the barn door is already open

Yeah, he did mention that he and his wife put her on birth control a year ago!!

I think they were in a tuff spot at that time. Put her on the pill felt like giving her a free pass to screw around. But at the same time it was also a preventative way of keeping her from getting pregnant with a child they knew they would end up supporting and taking care of.

[paganmama80]

So if he put her on BC what is his problem then?

[Spazkat9696]

The pill only works if she takes it.

[♪♫♪♪♫♫♪♥]

Originally Posted by paganmama80

So if he put her on BC what is his problem then?

It's possible that he just didn't want them boning in his house. I always preferred my car's back seat. Love was more "portable" that way.

[paganmama80]

Originally Posted by Spazkat9696

The pill only works if she takes it.

That's why they have the shot or an iud.

[paganmama80]

Originally Posted by ♪♫♪♪♫♫♪♥

It's possible that he just didn't want them boning in his house. I always preferred backseats myself.

Perhaps....but in reality i still don't get the big deal. I love your sn by the way...though i never know what to call you lol.

[jasper12]

Well, since I have had my daughter on BC pills since she was 13, i would not worry about that. She had horrible periods, and terrible acne. That solved those problems. She does not really like boys, but she probably will soon...

As for me, since I was doing that same stuff at that age, then I would not go crazy...really, what do you expect? Teens will do stuff...So, just shut the door, go downstairs, and pour yourself a large, adult beverage. Maybe turn on the music really loud.

[tvdxer]

Originally Posted by hothulamaui

might makes right eh? not "allowing" contact is a sure way of assuring that not only will contact happen the minute you turn your back, it will also make their "relationship" stronger.

perhaps talking about it openly would be a better bet

I would tell my wife to keep a close eye on her and to never allow her to leave the house unaccompanied, excluding school. Severe violations require severe punishments.

[Ceece]

While I didn't catch anyone in "the act" I did find out my D was having sex with her BF so I took them both to the Dr and had her get an exam and had the Dr give them a talk and a prescription for BC pills. They were both totally embarassed and I was OK with that.

I was 3 years older than my D before I had sex and I had the brains to go to my Dr and get the pills before anything happened.

[SKP440]

I would call the Police and have the boy arrested for rape.