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Old 12-02-2010, 05:30 PM
 
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Just curious how others would react.

My co-worker told me today, that he caught his 16 year old daughter having sex with her boyfriend.

To make things worse, it was under his roof. He said her boyfriend was over and the bedroom door was closed. She was to leave the door open when he was there and didnt. Co-worker said when he opened the door There they were going at it right in front of him!! wow!! (dont know why they were stupid enough to close the door and think they could just go at it withought getting caught ). Boyfriend got kicked out and co-worker and Daughter got in a very big fight over her stunt.

I could tell he was stressed about it. He knew she was no angel, but to go that far as in the house WOW.

What would some of you do if this happened?

 
Old 12-02-2010, 05:47 PM
 
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I would make sure my daughter was on birth control and visit the doc for STD testing. a parent shouldn't hide their head in the sand if they are having sex at home you better believe she is having sex elsewhere. the barn door is already open
 
Old 12-02-2010, 05:50 PM
 
Location: maryland
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Say opps and walk out the door *shrugs*. All the co worker is going to do is ensure she will continue to do it anyway with that attitude.
 
Old 12-02-2010, 05:52 PM
 
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I would make sure my daughter was on birth control and visit the doc for STD testing. a parent shouldn't hide their head in the sand if they are having sex at home you better believe she is having sex elsewhere. the barn door is already open

Sadly a lot of parents still do that which is one of the reasons the birth rate for teens is so high here.
 
Old 12-02-2010, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Duluth, Minnesota, USA
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Just curious how others would react.

My co-worker told me today, that he caught his 16 year old daughter having sex with her boyfriend.

To make things worse, it was under his roof. He said her boyfriend was over and the bedroom door was closed. She was to leave the door open when he was there and didnt. Co-worker said when he opened the door There they were going at it right in front of him!! wow!! (dont know why they were stupid enough to close the door and think they could just go at it withought getting caught ). Boyfriend got kicked out and co-worker and Daughter got in a very big fight over her stunt.

I could tell he was stressed about it. He knew she was no angel, but to go that far as in the house WOW.

What would some of you do if this happened?
I would ground my daughter indefinitely, and permit absolutely no contact with her boyfriend. As simple as that!

My 16 year old daughter probably wouldn't be allowed to have a boyfriend anyway.
 
Old 12-02-2010, 05:57 PM
 
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I would make sure my daughter was on birth control and visit the doc for STD testing. a parent shouldn't hide their head in the sand if they are having sex at home you better believe she is having sex elsewhere. the barn door is already open

I agree. Parents need to remember the crap they did when they were kids.
 
Old 12-02-2010, 05:59 PM
 
Location: maryland
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I would ground my daughter indefinitely, and permit absolutely no contact with her boyfriend. As simple as that!

LOL yeah like that would work . And good god your 16 year old daughter would not be allowed to have a bf?
 
Old 12-02-2010, 06:01 PM
 
Location: maryland
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I agree. Parents need to remember the crap they did when they were kids.

For some reason parents a lot of the time seem to forget what it was like being kids. They do this 180 and actually have an issue with their kids doing the same things they did. I have a friend who growing up used to wear bikinis and what not all the time. Then she becomes a mom and quite modest and when her daughter turns 14 and wants to wear the same things she puts her foot down.
 
Old 12-02-2010, 06:02 PM
 
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I would ground my daughter indefinitely, and permit absolutely no contact with her boyfriend. As simple as that!

My 16 year old daughter probably wouldn't be allowed to have a boyfriend anyway.
might makes right eh? not "allowing" contact is a sure way of assuring that not only will contact happen the minute you turn your back, it will also make their "relationship" stronger.

perhaps talking about it openly would be a better bet
 
Old 12-02-2010, 06:05 PM
 
Location: maryland
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might makes right eh? not "allowing" contact is a sure way of assuring that not only will contact happen the minute you turn your back, it will also make their "relationship" stronger.

perhaps talking about it openly would be a better bet

It's funny because you tend to get that attitude in the most religious areas...and they have the highest rates of teen pregnancy as well. And a teenage girl tends to be the most bullheaded creature alive as well lol.
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