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Old 01-18-2012, 04:14 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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See post #331 and several others....
Omg...if another person simply tells me "your house, your rules" one more time I am going to scream.

It's almost as bad as "Because I said so".

No one can offer up a legitimate answer as to WHY it is such a bad thing to be an adult, living at home and maintaining a real relationship with someone you deeply care about.

Just because someone can't afford to live alone doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed to have a legit relationship and find love.

As far as I'm concerned as long as it isn't going on in YOUR house then it shouldn't be an issue.

 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:21 PM
 
Location: California
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Well I suppose he can just come home after sex, but I don't see the point in that.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Omg...if another person simply tells me "your house, your rules" one more time I am going to scream.

It's almost as bad as "Because I said so".

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As far as I'm concerned as long as it isn't going on in YOUR house then it shouldn't be an issue.
To the first part, "You will understand when you move out on your own and have your own kids" (how's THAT for an annoying but truthful response? )

To the second, saying it over and over again doesn't make it true any more than "your house, your rules."
 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:34 PM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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To the first part, "You will understand when you move out on your own and have your own kids" (how's THAT for an annoying but truthful response? )

To the second, saying it over and over again doesn't make it true any more than "your house, your rules."
OHMYGOD

THATS WORSE!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, we're focusing on the act of spending the night with an SO while living at home with your parents.

What about that is wrong?
If I get another half-assed answer that doesn't address WHY it is such a horrible thing that should be forbidden I am pretty sure I am going to explode, those of you colorado people will see a giant explosion in the DTC area.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:40 PM
 
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OHMYGOD

THATS WORSE!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, we're focusing on the act of spending the night with an SO while living at home with your parents.

What about that is wrong?
If I get another half-assed answer that doesn't address WHY it is such a horrible thing that should be forbidden I am pretty sure I am going to explode, those of you colorado people will see a giant explosion in the DTC area.
You will not get the approval you seek on this forum of PARENTS. Seriously, I'm certain some will agree with you if you take this to relationships.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:50 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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OHMYGOD

THATS WORSE!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, we're focusing on the act of spending the night with an SO while living at home with your parents.

What about that is wrong?
If I get another half-assed answer that doesn't address WHY it is such a horrible thing that should be forbidden I am pretty sure I am going to explode, those of you colorado people will see a giant explosion in the DTC area.
You're right. I'll help you pack.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:53 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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By the way, "your house, your rules" applies to everything, not merely the issue of having sex at someone else's house. If your parents don't want you to own red shoes and you want to stamp your feet and say, "But why why why why WHY I love my red shoes why can't I wear them I'm an adult it's NOT FAIR," guess what the answer is?

You're right. I'll help you pack.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 04:55 PM
 
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we're focusing on the act of spending the night with an SO while living at home with your parents.
No. YOU are focusing on that. We have discussed this as parents. This is a parenting forum. We exchange ideas. We share feelings and experiences. YOU choose to focus on YOUR life and what YOU want. (Which, I've become convinced is some sort of Pony Express way-station where you can come in, have something to eat, a shower, then flop on the mattress for a nap on the nights you have nowhere else to go.)

You don't want to participate in a discussion. You want to cry about your life as a 22 year old with no responsibilities. Mattie is right. Take it to Relationships. I have an idea you will get a ton people saying "Poor girl. My mommie is mean too." Seriously. There's a forum for that.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 05:03 PM
 
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Hm, I was allowed to sleep at my first gf's house when we were both 15/16.
If it is about sotpping them from having sex, I can tell you, they will have it also without sleeping together. If it is not about, than what is the problem of sleeping together.
You can not stop this simple as it is. Kids grow up, and do what they wany.
It's to easy to do stuff parents do not want but also do not find out.
exactly. i already lived in my then bf's apartment at 17 and i turned out just fine, i dont know what slbailey has hangups about, but it sounds uptight and 18th century.
 
Old 01-18-2012, 05:16 PM
 
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Originally Posted by txtqueen View Post
OHMYGOD

THATS WORSE!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, we're focusing on the act of spending the night with an SO while living at home with your parents.

What about that is wrong?
If I get another half-assed answer that doesn't address WHY it is such a horrible thing that should be forbidden I am pretty sure I am going to explode, those of you colorado people will see a giant explosion in the DTC area.
Really? Spending the night with someone then going back home to mommy and daddy's? Either be a child or be an adult- You can't choose to be both.
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