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Originally Posted by jkcoop
This made me smile.... I never thought of Denver as exciting. We live a pretty boring life
I would say that waiting to see how much travel your husband really ends up doing and how long the stretches are that he is gone. Also, when he is home, if they require him to be in the office, or if he can work from home a bit to make up for being gone.
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Denver is exciting compared to where we're going! I guess it's all relative, though. We LOVE where we live now. But there are plenty of worse places than where the job is.
The company requires DH to live there (it is part of the agreement). Like you all said, we have a few months to see how it goes before school ends and we have to make a decision.
I have always believed that if one is a SAHM, like myself, then one follows the breadwinner, and if you have to go where the job is, then you do so. I haven't worked outside the home in 9 years, so....
DH has been in a niche industry that has lost at least 75% of its business due to the economy/housing burst. Companies are shutting down left and right. It has been a very difficult 3 years, financially. We have been able to keep our kids in private school but have sacrificed everything else to do so.
It is a miracle, practically, that not only he got this new job, but that a job like this exists. He gets to use all his education and training but in a new direction. So I am happy for him.
I totally get that about so much of the burden being on me. When he got the offer, I started crying, as reality settled in. There really is no choice, though. When you go from a 6 figure income to not being able to go to the grocery store, it is quite humbling.
Maybe after we visit the schools in the new city and look at some houses, we will feel better about the decision.
Thanks, everyone.