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Originally Posted by ValueAddedWorker
Ah but what if the Mom insists on making money transfers to the child's account, wants to wash her clothes and basically babies the adult child? Obviously this can't go on forever, so yes I suppose Mom is getting fed up. Dad is semi retired with a good pension but I suppose money is no longer flowing liberally like it used to.
Note that all it takes is for the child to provide her bank account number in order for the Mom to make the online transfer. The only way the child can block it (she asked the bank) is to close the account. Seems rather drastic gesture, as this same bank account is the one where she receives her payroll and has been in good standing with the bank for years.
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I'm confused. If mom is fed up, why is mom still washing child's clothes? Mom is being a tad contradictory here.
If child doesn't want mom's money then child writes mom a check. If mom doesn't want to support child then mom ceases to put money in child's bank account.
If child is capable of earning a living then child should do so and not take money from mom nor apply for subsidized housing.
Child needs to start acting like Adult, Mom needs to grow a Pair.