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Old 06-26-2011, 05:37 PM
 
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What would go through your mind? Would you be supportive of your child's gender identity? My friend's 28 year-old sister just came out as a FTM (female-to-male) transsexual and is undergoing gender reassignment therapy and hormone replacement.

Her parents are devastated. I feel horrible for them.

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Old 06-26-2011, 06:29 PM
 
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My child is my child, no matter what. I hope the parents get over it before they drive him away.

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Old 06-26-2011, 06:32 PM
 
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Parents love should be uncondtional but it still can break your heart!
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Old 06-26-2011, 06:37 PM
 
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Love them regardless.
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Old 06-26-2011, 07:16 PM
 
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I would love and accept him no matter what.
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Old 06-26-2011, 07:35 PM
 
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I would love and support and accept him/her.

Life is unbelievably hard for people who go through gender reassignment. I'd want to be there as much as possible for them.
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Old 06-26-2011, 07:58 PM
 
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I would too. I think I'd be very sad, not because of the gender reassignment, but because they had to suffer not being able to be who they are for so long. It must be very difficult, to have to deal with that along with everything else that life throws you while you're growing up.

Gender, and all that it implies, is nowhere near as black and white as people think for a lot of people. It's a very tricky biological mechanism, that is not always as obvious on the inside as it is on the outside.

I would hope that for all the difficulty they might have making the transition, that they finally find some peace.
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Old 06-26-2011, 08:12 PM
 
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Throw them out on their arse. Disown own. Hang fliers and banners advertising my disgust.








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Old 06-26-2011, 08:52 PM
 
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Buy "Rocky Horror Picture Show" on blue ray.
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Old 06-26-2011, 09:23 PM
 
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anytime a parent has to change "their" goals and hopes for their child it is hard and it takes times to adjust. never becoming a grandparent, quitting school, the list goes on and on. being gay or being transgendered is probably hardest of all, especially for parents who have a hard time with the subget to begin with.

a parents love should be unconditional, talk it out, adjust to the new situation and move on with loving your child like before
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