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Re your post in the favoritism thread:
From what you've posted over the past few years, I've gathered that your mom most likely is not "mom of the year" material. Really, none of us are.
I wanted to share with you what I've realized in the past couple years since I discovered that I've been depressed an anxious for a long time. For one, I've realized that it isn't always "everyone else", it is me. I can tell now when my kids are really on my last nerve, and I feel like nothing I do gets through to them, and little things my husband does cause me to break down in tears, it isn't them, it is me. They are probably doing what they've always been doing. I'm the one who is not in a good mental state. I think if you get treated for your depression and anxiety, you will realize the world is not out to get you. That includes your mom and your brother.
I think if you get treated for your depression and anxiety, you will realize the world is not out to get you. That includes your mom and your brother.
txt - This is something you should listen to. You get SUCH good advice here and we have told you this again and again and again. As we have with so many things.
Re your post in the favoritism thread:
From what you've posted over the past few years, I've gathered that your mom most likely is not "mom of the year" material. Really, none of us are.
I wanted to share with you what I've realized in the past couple years since I discovered that I've been depressed an anxious for a long time. For one, I've realized that it isn't always "everyone else", it is me. I can tell now when my kids are really on my last nerve, and I feel like nothing I do gets through to them, and little things my husband does cause me to break down in tears, it isn't them, it is me. They are probably doing what they've always been doing. I'm the one who is not in a good mental state. I think if you get treated for your depression and anxiety, you will realize the world is not out to get you. That includes your mom and your brother.
That's just it, they ALWAYS have been doing the crap, my mom has always been this way and it hurts me. I've always been affected by her behavior.
This isn't a new thing. This isn't me in a different mental state and normal behavior affecting me, this is its getting worse and I am done with it.
I know when it is me and when it is someone in particular. I can tell when I am aggravated at work because we're busy and its stressful and I can tell when one of my CSM's is directly being rude to me.
I can tell when I am stressed at work and its not work stressing me out but something else.
txt - This is something you should listen to. You get SUCH good advice here and we have told you this again and again and again. As we have with so many things.
Hopes has actually given you the links for free help. She's been busy but maybe she'll be back here to re-post them.
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