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Originally Posted by FinsterRufus
I agree 100% with this. IMO, the reason most people fail at doing the thing they love the most is because they are not completely and utterly committed to it.
They are told ad nauseum that they have to have something to fall back on, that it's not practical, that they'll never make a living - well the only way to find out is to go at it full force, with the all seriousness that you would apply to a more conventional career.
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People crush interests and dreams so easily without thinking by pointing out weaknesses and flaws instead of being supportive.
I was taken aback when someone (can't remember who) posted in this thread that their son wanted to major in History to be a teacher and they scared him away by saying he didn't like to speak in front of crowds.
Sometimes people do best throwing themselves into careers that conflict with their fears.
I know many ER nurses who were germaphobes before entering nursing. They love their careers. Just imagine if someone had said, "but you have a fear of germs" when they said they wanted to go into nursing.
My son has social phobia and the best thing he ever did for himself was throw himself into a job that required public speaking and heavy contact with people. He's so proud of himself everyday. That wouldn't have happened if he had taken an easy route and not challenged his fears.
I'll never forget when I said I wanted to be a teacher and the guidance counselor said, "There aren't any jobs and it doesn't pay well." Guess what! Teachers are paid 100k in my region, and they have summers off. Even if teaching didn't pay well, it would have been a great career for a parent as a second family income. Because of that, it really annoys me when I hear people discourage teenagers from career paths when they express interest.
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Originally Posted by FinsterRufus
People are very successful in all sorts of non conventional ways, and the common thread is that they had an unshakable confidence in their ability to be successful at it, regardless of the odds.
That single minded sense of purpose goes a long way when you're breaking into an industry. Successful people in your field will hire/mentor/educate/work with you on that basis alone.
Of course, it is imperative that you have a great talent at it as well as a great drive. Unfortunately, all the ambition in the world is not going to help if you're just being delusional. That's the main thing one has to take an honest look at in the beginning, which can be a tall order for younger people especially.
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It's amazing the money people make in careers others think are lowly.
But the most important thing about success is it's not all about money. It's about happiness. If someone can support themselves doing something they love, that's successful in my book. By support themselves, I mean by their own personal standards. I know many happy people who live in little tiny houses. Society might view them as starving artists but they're not starving. They are supporting themselves. They're not wealthy and they don't care. They'd rather live frugally doing what they love.