How to be intimate with a date when my son is home during the weekend (three year old, hubby)
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You "think" you son will not meet these women. Good luck with that. 3 year olds, especially those in a strange environment, wake up. Just exactly how are you going to explain this woman when he comes running into your room after a bad dream? Suppose he wakes up to use the bathroom just as one of the women is sneaking in/our of your place?
If you want your share of time with him, you need to be a father the ENTIRE time he is with you. Maybe 48 hours out of an entire week. Doesn't your son deserve that? That means no female friends for sex on the weekends. Nothing worth having is easy.
That is one amazing kid! At age 3 he is already in kindergarten, understands and can discuss why his two parents don' t live together like his friend's do (even though they never have) and can stay up until 10:30 at night!
That is one amazing kid! At age 3 he is already in kindergarten, understands and can discuss why his two parents don' t live together like his friend's do (even though they never have) and can stay up until 10:30 at night!
I've already explained why he's in kindergarten, it's where kids aged 3 go around here. Yes, he can ask why we are not together, can't see the surprise about it. And yes, he can stay up until 10.30 at night during the weekend. Not every child is the same or has the same requirements. He doesn't seem tired when he gets up.
If your girlfriends are coming on the same day though, that may be tougher to juggle. Perhaps a quickie for girlfriend #1 while your son takes a nap followed by girlfriend #2 in the evening. Then you can shuffle them around the following day somehow working girlfriend #3 into the rotation. Sounds like a tricky time management problem....
No, it's only one at a time. It's usually one on Saturday and the other on Sunday. One of them switches with the third one the next weekend.
Yes, that's probably how I got him and I sure had plenty of fun with that.
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Originally Posted by DewDropInn
Some 42 year old men actually put their sons, who they only see for a few hours at a time, ahead of their sex lives. Your kid didn't get that dad, so I suggest a lock on the door because he doesn't need to walk in on Dad and his current sweetie doing the deed.
I always put him first but that doesn't mean I have to ignore all other aspects of my life. He gets a dad that has his faults but who tries to do the best for him.
I can't have the bedroom door locked when he's around.
Well, now he has started being more comfortable not having his mother, grandmothers or teachers around all the time. So it's only fair I get my share of time with him.
You assume I don't want to spend time with him.
I'm not assuming you don't want to spend time with him. I'm only noticing that you seem to have other priorities or distractions while he's in your custody. Parenting tends to be pretty much a 24-hour thing.
I go the gym 3 times a week and by the time I get home at 9 PM, I'm exhausted. I also help a friend in her charity institution once a week.
Besides, the women I'm seeing are not paid. They have their own lives too and it's not always easy to plan something during a weekday.
So, you don't want to give up your gym, you don't want to give up your charity work, you don't want to give up your "fun with friction"....why did you even have a child? Did you think life would continue on exactly as before? It doesn't really work that way.
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