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My older teenage daughter is very abusive to my six year old daughter. Youngest is a bit annoying and wants to be around my teenager. My eldest repeatedly says she wishes she wasn't born and to put her in foster care. I don't understand how she could be so mean. My six year old already has a depression disorder. I've always had to work because they get no support from there fathers. When my youngest was 2 she was violently molested by her father's brother and then it happened again when she was 5 by my pastors son. She has serious psychological scars especially because her father called her a liar and abandoned her and since case was substantiated he has not wanted anything to do with her. I am not going to lie I do give her a lot more attention because she needs it. She is in therapy, my teenager has also been in therapy. you would think my teenager would be more understanding but she isn't. She constantly puts her down and recently got my six year olds head and banged itagainst the wall and kicked her in the face. I told my teenager if she ever did it again. I would not hesitate to call the police and took away her cell phone her most prized possession. I also had a serious talk with her and attempted to make her part of the solution. I am looking into therapy Again for her because she has serious anger issues. I love both of my children and I am torn. I am a single parent and trying my best. I also have them both in cheer, to keep them active and I always go to both of there games. Man it's difficult....I'm struggling with both of them Teenager has serious anger issues and resents me and her little sister who is clinically deprest. Every time I attempt to talk to her about anything serious she tunes me out and walks away. I give my teenager alone time as far as have having lunch, going to the movies together and having mother daughter time together and I also give time to my 6 year old but anytime I have them both around each other. My teenager just seems so angry...
My older teenage daughter is very abusive to my six year old daughter. Youngest is a bit annoying and wants to be around my teenager. My eldest repeatedly says she wishes she wasn't born and to put her in foster care. I don't understand how she could be so mean. My six year old already has a depression disorder. I've always had to work because they get no support from there fathers. When my youngest was 2 she was violently molested by her father's brother and then it happened again when she was 5 by my pastors son. She has serious psychological scars especially because her father called her a liar and abandoned her and since case was substantiated he has not wanted anything to do with her. I am not going to lie I do give her a lot more attention because she needs it. She is in therapy, my teenager has also been in therapy. you would think my teenager would be more understanding but she isn't. She constantly puts her down and recently got my six year olds head and banged itagainst the wall and kicked her in the face. I told my teenager if she ever did it again. I would not hesitate to call the police and took away her cell phone her most prized possession. I also had a serious talk with her and attempted to make her part of the solution. I am looking into therapy Again for her because she has serious anger issues. I love both of my children and I am torn. I am a single parent and trying my best. I also have them both in cheer, to keep them active and I always go to both of there games. Man it's difficult....I'm struggling with both of them Teenager has serious anger issues and resents me and her little sister who is clinically deprest. Every time I attempt to talk to her about anything serious she tunes me out and walks away. I give my teenager alone time as far as have having lunch, going to the movies together and having mother daughter time together and I also give time to my 6 year old but anytime I have them both around each other. My teenager just seems so angry...
I think you know what the answer is here. Your elder daughter needs seems to need therapy as much as your younger daughter does. I doubt anybody on this forum can give you better advice than a therapist can. Good luck though, as it sounds as though both of your girls are hurting.
eh, sounds like my siblings and I when we were growing up. 15 is a hard age to be at. We got over it though and became very close.
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