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Old 11-12-2010, 11:50 PM
 
Location: maryland
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I am 20 and I dont even do stuff with my GF in my room with the door closed! Its called respect really I am not going to fool around with my GF with my parents in the room next door watching TV and I dont think my parents would allow it. And her parents dont even allow me to be in her room or even in the house when they are not home. She is 21! (we are both in school so parents support us we follow their rules) Its more of thing of respect then anything else. I dont think kids should be allowed to do that until maybe 17-18 but even then I find it disrepectful. There is a huge problem with that. And there is a good chance they are doing a lot more then watching tv.
Also since when do 14 y/o girls play videogames????

Actually a lot of teen girls play video games my friend.
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Old 11-13-2010, 12:15 AM
 
Location: Wherever life takes me.
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Why do people feel the need to always be bumping ancient posts?
Bumping ancient post is the new black..

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if a girl that young gets pregnant while in this home, the adults there could get in trouble with the law because they were responsible letting this happen.
Sorry to burst your bubble but there's no law that says if kids have sex in a house the parents that own the house can get into trouble...teeangers are independently thinking individuals and parents cannot be around them 24/7 or know what they are doing at all times.

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IF they are going to have sex, and IF they can't do it in one place, they'll find another place. Again, the statistics on teenage pregnancy will back me up on that.

"We can't have sex anymore, because Mom won't let me close the door." Do you think they will give up that easily?

Encourage them to have oral sex, and you significantly reduce the risk of pregnancy.
True that...except the last part..."hey don't have sex go suck a diick, you won't get pregnant and you'll get kudos from the football team"

I really wouldn't encourage that...I would just stick the girl on birth control, make sure she had regular gyno check-ups and make sure they knew WHERE to buy condoms..

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Actually a lot of teen girls play video games my friend.
Aww hell yeah!!
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Old 11-13-2010, 12:50 AM
 
Location: Liberal Coast
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True that...except the last part..."hey don't have sex go suck a diick, you won't get pregnant and you'll get kudos from the football team"

I really wouldn't encourage that...I would just stick the girl on birth control, make sure she had regular gyno check-ups and make sure they knew WHERE to buy condoms..


Wow, I actually agree with you on one thing. I never thought this day would come. I'm talking about not encouraging oral sex. The rest I am completely against. May I ask what teen doesn't know where to buy condoms? I've never met these people.
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Old 11-13-2010, 12:52 AM
 
Location: Liberal Coast
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In other news, for those of us who know and love paganmama, water is wet.
So true. I'm pretty sure everyone here would know my thoughts on the matter without my piping up. Haha.
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:05 AM
 
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I wish I had a teenage girl in my bedroom!
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Old 11-13-2010, 01:44 AM
 
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Wow, I actually agree with you on one thing. I never thought this day would come. I'm talking about not encouraging oral sex. The rest I am completely against. May I ask what teen doesn't know where to buy condoms? I've never met these people.
A lot you would be suprised.
Like I see teenagers asking on Yahoo Answers all the time, "where can I buy condoms?", "do you have to be a certain age to buy condoms?", "I'm X age, will they turn me down if I try to buy condoms?"

A lot of teenagers are ignorant when it comes to this..
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Old 11-13-2010, 02:24 AM
 
Location: Liberal Coast
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A lot you would be suprised.
Like I see teenagers asking on Yahoo Answers all the time, "where can I buy condoms?", "do you have to be a certain age to buy condoms?", "I'm X age, will they turn me down if I try to buy condoms?"

A lot of teenagers are ignorant when it comes to this..
Wow. Either those are fake or they are in the minority. I knew kids in a lot of different social circles, and by the time they got into junior high, I would say 99% would have known the answers to those questions. I knew a couple kids who were extremely sheltered, but other than that...
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Old 11-13-2010, 03:24 AM
 
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Wow. Either those are fake or they are in the minority. I knew kids in a lot of different social circles, and by the time they got into junior high, I would say 99% would have known the answers to those questions. I knew a couple kids who were extremely sheltered, but other than that...
You can't fake stupidity of that level some people exhibit...
You just can't.
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Old 11-13-2010, 06:45 AM
 
Location: maryland
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Wow, I actually agree with you on one thing. I never thought this day would come. I'm talking about not encouraging oral sex. The rest I am completely against. May I ask what teen doesn't know where to buy condoms? I've never met these people.

Most do, but a lot believe you have to be 18 to buy them, a lot also feel if you go in and buy them the clerk will tell their parents. You would be amazed at the misconception of teens, and the lack of sex edcuation they get. Most girls don't realize that in a majority of states they can get bc without their parents okay as well.
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Old 11-13-2010, 06:47 AM
 
Location: maryland
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Wow. Either those are fake or they are in the minority. I knew kids in a lot of different social circles, and by the time they got into junior high, I would say 99% would have known the answers to those questions. I knew a couple kids who were extremely sheltered, but other than that...
No i would actually say they are in the majority. The lousy job most parents and the schools do with sex ed really would amaze you in some of the misconceptions teens have with things.
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