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Old 04-06-2010, 08:51 AM
 
Location: Miami/ Washington DC
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I am 20 and I dont even do stuff with my GF in my room with the door closed! Its called respect really I am not going to fool around with my GF with my parents in the room next door watching TV and I dont think my parents would allow it. And her parents dont even allow me to be in her room or even in the house when they are not home. She is 21! (we are both in school so parents support us we follow their rules) Its more of thing of respect then anything else. I dont think kids should be allowed to do that until maybe 17-18 but even then I find it disrepectful. There is a huge problem with that. And there is a good chance they are doing a lot more then watching tv.
Also since when do 14 y/o girls play videogames????
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Old 11-11-2010, 09:10 PM
 
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if a girl that young gets pregnant while in this home, the adults there could get in trouble with the law because they were responsible letting this happen.
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Old 11-12-2010, 06:27 AM
 
Location: maryland
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Why do people feel the need to always be bumping ancient posts?
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Old 11-12-2010, 06:28 AM
 
Location: maryland
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if a girl that young gets pregnant while in this home, the adults there could get in trouble with the law because they were responsible letting this happen.

Eh how?
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Old 11-12-2010, 06:29 AM
 
Location: maryland
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I have no problem with allowing my daughters or son having opposite in the room with the door closed as we could growing up.
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Old 11-12-2010, 08:15 AM
 
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I have no problem with allowing my daughters or son having opposite in the room with the door closed as we could growing up.
In other news, for those of us who know and love paganmama, water is wet.
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Old 11-12-2010, 08:17 AM
 
Location: maryland
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in other news, for those of us who know and love paganmama, water is wet.
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Old 11-12-2010, 10:12 AM
 
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in other news, for those of us who know and love paganmama, water is wet.
lmfao! :d
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Old 11-12-2010, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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Yep, think it's totally unacceptable behavior. You friend said her piece, and I hate to say it, but it's not her place to do anything about it. She's right....IMHO. Opposite sex youngsters were not allowed in my kids' rooms...period. They were required to remain in a "public area"
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Old 11-12-2010, 10:47 PM
 
Location: Victoria TX
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I think you assuming that teenagers are going to indulge in safe sex and be responsible is more then just a little optimistic. Again, the statistics of teenage pregnancy will back me up on that.
IF they are going to have sex, and IF they can't do it in one place, they'll find another place. Again, the statistics on teenage pregnancy will back me up on that.

"We can't have sex anymore, because Mom won't let me close the door." Do you think they will give up that easily?

Encourage them to have oral sex, and you significantly reduce the risk of pregnancy.
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