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Old 02-04-2015, 05:25 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I'm not asking the question to promote a debate about its decriminalization or its legal use but AM curious to know if you're a parent who regularly smokes marijuana and whether or not you do so in front of your children. I've smoked casually on and off for many years but it's only very recently that this has been happening around me and, frankly, it bothers me. Certainly not enough to kick up a stink about it or do anything about it but, as easy going and liberal as I am with a decided "live and let live" outlook on life, it just rubs me the wrong way.

Curious to know what others think and hear opinions.
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Old 02-04-2015, 05:51 PM
 
Location: MO->MI->CA->TX->MA
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I hope this is not a serious question..
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Old 02-04-2015, 05:55 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I hope this is not a serious question..
Why would it not be?
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Old 02-04-2015, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma
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I've seen a debate on facebook about this: "There's nothing wrong with it so why wouldn't I?" is usually their argument.
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Old 02-04-2015, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Back and Beyond
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I no longer use cannabis... But I find nothing wrong with responsible parents being slightly buzzed in front of your children. Basic caution should be used (eye drops, not smoking it in front of them, discrete and small amounts).
A quick walk back to the shed for 1 or 2 very discrete puffs = OK, taking giant bong rips off your living room coffee table while watching family guy = not OK. Of course many cannabis users give the responsible ones a bad name. I DO NOT think it's ok to use in an enclosed space shared with children as the second hand smoke could get them a contact high. I am referring to outside, discrete use that the child is not privy too.

Prepare for this thread to be highly flamed. I do feel there is a double standard between drinking and cannabis use though, when if anything it should be the other way around...
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Old 02-04-2015, 06:06 PM
 
Location: here
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I hope this is not a serious question..
Why wouldn't it be? Now that I live in a state where it is legal, I have mixed thoughts on this. I don't smoke it, but what if I did? I drink in front of my kids. Is this really different, or is it just taboo because in "my day" it was an illegal drug?
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Old 02-04-2015, 06:52 PM
 
Location: The Midwest
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I live in a state where it's not legal, so if I did smoke marijuana (I don't) I wouldn't in front of my kids since I'm not sure I'd like to send the message of disregarding laws. If I lived somewhere where it's legal, maybe. I don't get drunk in front of my kids (or ever, really ), but I do drink wine with dinner sometimes, or drink a beer at a cookout or baseball game. I'm not sure I see marijuana as all that different, except for it has a stigma.
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Old 02-04-2015, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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Well, I wouldn't and wouldn't associate with anyone that did. This is the last person I heard of that was that stupid: Kansas foster father gets nearly 3 years in prison after 10-month-old girl dies in hot car | Fox News I don't see how you can avoid neglecting your children when you drugged with legal or illegal drugs, add alcohol to that. I feel so sorry for kids today.
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Old 02-04-2015, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No.
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Old 02-04-2015, 08:21 PM
 
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No, although I don't smoke marijuana, nor do I have children.
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