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You may not have mental issues but you certainly have self-esteem issues, OP.
The most important thing a parent can do for a child is to love him/her. Period. Good looks and moneyed parents doesn't guarantee anything in life- you can easily get in a car accident and get disfigured, so there goes your looks, and your parents can go bankrupt, so there goes your money. Or, actually, their money. Love transcends all of that and children KNOW when they are loved, trust me. Knowing that you have parents who feel as if you've made their lives more complete and just all around better is the best thing in the world.
The rest is just fluff and fluff ain't s%^t compared to love.
What would you do of your parents had the same mindset as you?
Seek professional therapy if you have mental and emotional issues with your parents.
i wish they had. nobody's parents care about them, they are just fulfilling their biological need to pass on their genetics.
if they truly cared they wouldn't have brought you into existence in the first place or at least had the decency to be rich so you don't have to waste your life away working to survive.
you are FORCED to live and then you have to pay for that by slaving away till you die. its so depressing it literally hurts thinking about it.
i cant help but feel angry and resentful to my parents for condemning me to this living hell.
and it is my parents fault im miserable, im not attractive and that means many thing are instantly harder to do. it also means i will be treated worse for no other reason then the genetics my parents gave me.
i hate working but i have to because my parents are poor and i have to work to survive.
You sound like a lazy whiny baby. You are as attractive as you make yourself and how you feel.
and it is my parents fault im miserable, im not attractive and that means many thing are instantly harder to do. it also means i will be treated worse for no other reason then the genetics my parents gave me.
i hate working but i have to because my parents are poor and i have to work to survive.
How old are you?
It is not your parents fault that you are miserable. It is true that attractiveness does make things a bit easier, but you don't have to accept being miserable even if you are not as attractive as you would like to be.
Very few people get by without working. You may not like working, but perhaps you can find work that is more palatable to you if you try. Evaluate your strengths and weaknesses and find a job that plays to your strengths. Educate yourself in something that you enjoy doing that will lead to a job. There will, of course, always be parts of the job you dislike, but if you can find something better, it will help.
....Is show love and appropriate understanding of human / childhood development while teaching their children that actions have consequences, and that life is not fair (which most cognitively aware humans eventually realize- some sooner some later). It seems you realize Life is Not Fair so what's next for you? It's on you now.
Rather than wallow in superficial elements (which can have significant impact : wealth / appearance etc...) they are not the everything to your situation. I suggest you reexamine what is most important to you and if you still feel the same way, sign up to be an organ donor or for lab research.
Depending on your skill set(s), take an assessment to determine where your talents are and use them and expand them. You seem to have good written expression skills. Why not start there?
A suggestion: Read Les Brown, Live Your Dreams. Do you have any?
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