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You have been forced into a living situation you are not happy with, and now you are pretty much stuck. Did you know you may not legally be able to evict these people from your house? Hopefully, the son and GF are too dumb to know this.
It is up to your boyfriend to get his son out. If he fails to do so, you will probably need to go through eviction proceedings. I wish more women would think twice before they give up control of their own lives.
Incorrect. If she is a legal owner or tenant, she can file to evict one or the other in landlord/tenant court. I suggest OP do exactly that. OP, you can't just throw them out. You have to do this via legal means, and that takes time. But you can do it. I'm not going to bash the son for the position he's in. We can all get into a tight spot from time to time. Being an adult doesn't mean something bad can't happen to us financially, ascanyone who lived through the mortgage crisis of 2008 is well aware. However, it is the responsibility of people who seek help from parents or other family members to do everything they can to become fully self supporting ASAP, and not mooch off the kindness of their loved ones indefinitely.
You are officially no longer a "boy" when you have a 29 year old son.
Whatever you want to call him, you have to decide if he is worth the trouble because I doubt he is going to change except that one day your boyfriend will likely be a grandpa....... if he's not already. I admit I didn't read carefully.
I think pissing into water bottles would be the line for me.....
Unless you have two broken legs, I can not imagine either a child or adult who is so lazy that they urinate in bottles and leave them in the bedroom instead of walking to the bathroom to use the toilet.
IMHO, get rid of the bum & gf before their are grandbabies in the house.
I'd clean house, get rid of the son, his girlfriend and your boyfriend. I can tell you now as long as you are with your boyfriend the freeloading son will be a problem.
Petitegal74, It is an honor to have you hear in the forums. Welcome. Also welcome to the United States. Maybe someday you will let us know where you lived before coming to the USA.
My thoughts are that you drop your boy friend. You don't want someone that is asking you for money. You don't want someone that neglected to teach their own child how to live as an adult. Your boy friends son sounds like a slob. I would not want him in my home.
I'd clean house, get rid of the son, his girlfriend and your boyfriend. I can tell you now as long as you are with your boyfriend the freeloading son will be a problem.
"His son think that I am a controlling freak with money."
Yup and guess what the person paying the bills gets to make the rules in my book. If he wants to live by his own rules he can pay for his own place.I wouldn't have let him stay in the first place let alone his girlfriend.
353 dollars a month for rent? lol that is nothing. mine is 900.
They are probably both drug abusing freeloaders. You need to keep them both out of your house.
Also remember if they stay long enough you may not be able to legally evict them easily.
Damn right. That kid and his GF both need to GTFU.
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