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Old 01-14-2016, 01:00 PM
 
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I can do that. I'm trying but I feel bored and lonely and want male attention and the military guy never texts it'd rare he said he doesn't like to
Oh wow. not to be mean here but lady, you're a mess. A baby is the last thing you need, and getting into any kind of relationship in the state you're in will be a disaster. Any decent guy is going to run from this as fast as he possibly can.


Its an old truism that in a relationship your love for someone should outweigh your "need" for them. at this point you have this backwards.


You need counseling to find out why you need to be "needed" so badly. Not babies and not boyfriends.

 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:02 PM
 
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Going to school is no guarantee of getting a job. And many jobs do not offer healthcare.

Do you already have a job lined up? Not one that you think you may have, but an actual offer.
No I don't have one lined up.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:03 PM
 
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Hold on here... How did you go from having a break with your current bf a few weeks ago to wanting a family with a new guy?
I hate being alone. After my bf ended it I went out on a date with this guy a week later
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:05 PM
 
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What makes you think it will be easier for you to find a job after grad school when it took you "forever" to find one after undergrad (per your comment in a different thread)? What specific degree will you actually be graduating with? Do you actually know if there's any jobs in your field in your small city or are you planning to relocate after graduation?
MSW and I'm hoping a good school and good resume will make it happen faster.

I don't know I intended to move back to my hometown to be closer to my now ex bf (when we were together I made the plan) now I mightstay in the city I am Becsuse the military guy is close
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:06 PM
 
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Omg no! I'm so against that unless I'm like super old. Because it just seems desperate you know? Like then I have to explain that to a kid one day
Whats the difference between a sperm bank and what you are doing now? You ARE desperate. You are just looking for a walking sperm bank, you arent looking for a relationship.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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I hate being alone. After my bf ended it I went out on a date with this guy a week later
Get a cat. You are in no shape to have a child. Seriously, you need to work on you before you bring another human into your life.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:06 PM
 
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I finish school in may I will have a job by the time he's back with Healthcare.

I agree about what you're saying and it would be great if I was 18 but I'm 25
You sound 18. It's really difficult for me, after reading this thread, to believe you're a 25 year old grad student.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:06 PM
 
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Whats the difference between a sperm bank and what you are doing now? You ARE desperate. You are just looking for a walking sperm bank, you arent looking for a relationship.
I really do want a relationship though
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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Why? Why do you think you want a baby so badly?
She wants to be pregnant.

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When it comes to kids, it doesn't really matter what YOU want.

If you don't get that, PLEASE do not get pregnant.
Good advice. I have found those this obsessed are let down by the responsibility that a child is. A baby/child is a lot of work and expense. Cute can only take you so far.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 01:12 PM
 
Location: North America
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I hate being alone. After my bf ended it I went out on a date with this guy a week later
I think you need to learn to deal with this first. This is an extremely unhealthy issue that you have.
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