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Old 01-14-2016, 07:41 PM
 
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Im only encouraging her to do what feels right for her. Havin a family is an amazing gift I think every one deserves that shot, whether you have money or dont.
She needs to find a husband first not some random military guy.

 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Gab, have a baby when you want. Money doesnt matter, people have raised family's with less. If you are ready to have a baby and have love to give then go for it but if I were you I would wait and be married first. But it is your life so do as you wish. You dont have to wait to be done with school and rich before havin a baby. Theres never a perfect time. Just do whats best for you. And if you end up a little strapped after you give birth there is always wic and other programs that can help if you need to get on your feet. But I do hope you find the right man.
Love doesn't pay for diapers, or food, or medical care, or rent, or electricity, or water, or a car, or insurance or daycare...

WIC provides very little, and if you are "planning" on having a kid that includes planning for paying for that kid.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:43 PM
 
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You've met him TWICE!

TWICE!

Seriously?
Haven't you ever just met someone and it just clicked and you just knew it was amazing
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:44 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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She needs to find a husband first not some random military guy.
Agreed! I hope God will guide her and the right man together. Its tough waiting for your prince to come :/ it really stinks.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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25 and in high school I remember they stopped that program for whatever reason. I haven't ever had a pet. When I move after graduation I might get a puppy but idk depends on my schedule I'm not a big animal person
You can buy those babies. I recommend you buy one (it's cheaper than a real baby) care for it for 3 months, and come back and share the results which are logged via wifi into the companies system.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:46 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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Agreed! I hope God will guide her and the right man together. Its tough waiting for your prince to come :/ it really stinks.
Life stinks!

It's a "dog eat dog" world!

Sad but true.

I only hope for the best for the OP.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:47 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Love doesn't pay for diapers, or food, or medical care, or rent, or electricity, or water, or a car, or insurance or daycare...

WIC provides very little, and if you are "planning" on having a kid that includes planning for paying for that kid.
Your talking to some one who literally has no heat in their house lol. I know what reality is I live it. But I also believe love conquers all. You may have very little but if you have love and family then you can make it. Some times I go hungry and go without, but its okay. You dont need money just need to get creative. Ppl have raised families with less and done just fine.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:48 PM
 
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You can buy those babies. I recommend you buy one (it's cheaper than a real baby) care for it for 3 months, and come back and share the results which are logged via wifi into the companies system.
Or listen to this several times :


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0ze7SS0nG8
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Haven't you ever just met someone and it just clicked and you just knew it was amazing
He is pushing you off, so obviously he doesn't feel the same. The whole "wants to wait until he gets out of the military before getting involved" is ridiculous. Either he (A) doesn't want anything serious , or (B) doesn't want anything serious with you.
So your whole "relationship" with this guy you have met twice exists only between your ears.
 
Old 01-14-2016, 07:50 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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Your talking to some one who literally has no heat in their house lol. I know what reality is I live it. But I also believe love conquers all. You may have very little but if you have love and family then you can make it. Some times I go hungry and go without, but its okay. You dont need money just need to get creative. Ppl have raised families with less and done just fine.
With all that:

Tell that to the landlord when the rent can't be met.

Why should she put herself in that position to begin with in the first place?
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