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So don't talk to the mom. Talk to the daughter and explain about good touch/bad touch and how grown men shouldn't be putting their hands on her. Then talk to the boyfriend, look him dead in the eye and tell him you know exactly what he is doing, you will be watching him, and you won't hesitate to call the police. I'm not even kidding. If you can do it with a group of people who have your back, even better. Maybe you can run him off.
yes, she knows that the 2 of his family members are convicted child molesters. That was why it concerned me because he was paying more attention to the daughter than his gf
And he's her boyfriend because ... WHY? Seriously, is she that desperate? Who are these people? I have a hard time comprehending this because I don't hang around with trash. It's a shame all mothers (and fathers) don't put the well-being of their children first. Very sad.
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So don't talk to the mom. Talk to the daughter and explain about good touch/bad touch and how grown men shouldn't be putting their hands on her. Then talk to the boyfriend, look him dead in the eye and tell him you know exactly what he is doing, you will be watching him, and you won't hesitate to call the police. I'm not even kidding. If you can do it with a group of people who have your back, even better. Maybe you can run him off.
I don't feel comfortable having that talk since she isn't my daughter. That needs to be her mom's job. With her boyfriend, I could say something. I don't know how effective that would be.
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And he's her boyfriend because ... WHY? Seriously, is she that desperate? Too bad all mothers (and fathers) didn't put the well-being of their children first. I have a hard time comprehending this because I don't hang around with trash.
Apparently......she seems to NEED a man in her life whatever the reason may be. Sadly, some women are like that.
I was out with some friends. I couldn't help but notice my friend's boyfriend being overly affectionate with her 11yr. old daughter. He paid a lot more attention to the child than the mother and other adults that were around... My friend's boyfriend comes from a family of child molesters so I hope she is cautious having him around her. Would this be something to worry about?
Huge RED FLAG! Huge! Look of child sex offender registry in your area to see if he is on it. CD has one I believe.
Mom needs to move on...pedophile. Prick!
I don't feel comfortable having that talk since she isn't my daughter. That needs to be her mom's job. With her boyfriend, I could say something. I don't know how effective that would be.
How comfortable will you be if you find out he's raped her?
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Huge RED FLAG! Huge! Look of child sex offender registry in your area to see if he is on it. CD has one I believe.
Mom needs to move on...pedophile. Prick!
No, he isn't on there.
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How comfortable will you be if you find out he's raped her?
Like I said, the mom needs to have that discussion with her daughter. It's not my place to have that talk with her about good/bad touch. Talking about sex can be a touchy subject. I hope that never happens to her.
I don't feel comfortable having that talk since she isn't my daughter. That needs to be her mom's job. With her boyfriend, I could say something. I don't know how effective that would be.
You might not feel comfortable with it but by talking to her you might save her from something terrible. You say you don't think the mum will listen to you, and she's letting this go on, so its highly unlikely she has talked to the daughter or plans to talk to the daughter about good touch/bad touch. Someone needs to do it and as it clearly won't be her mother then the right thing would be to step up and do it yourself or ask someone you trust that is closer to the family to talk to her.
If the InterDreadnought has taught us ANYTHING, it's that the number of pedophiles and whackjobs out there are much, much larger numbers than we ever imagined.
OP what is your intent here? You won't talk to mom, won't talk to the girl, won't contact the authorities.
Clearly, there is cause for concern here. Enough that you came to an Internet forum to bash the mom. Seriously, if she is an alcoholic how has the child's welfare not come up before this?
If you do nothing because it makes you uncomfortable, it makes you as culpable as the mother in failing this child.
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