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Originally Posted by goochgirl
I do have a mom but all she cares about is her boyfriends other than that no. Also I don't park my kids in front of TV all day I play outside with them or they are beside me constantly. I tried really hard not to fight today but he got mad blamed getting in fight on me like usual I just can't take my life anymore I wish I would've died instead of my dad anyway try again tomorrow
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I know that you are devastated over the death of your father, but it will get better.
Please get counseling for your grief and for everything else going on in your life. Contact one, or some, of the hotlines or other services that people have suggested to you.
As, others have mentioned, going back to work could help in many ways. It would get you out of the house and away from your controlling BF, help you rebuild your poor self-esteem, and help you earn money.
But isn't the apartment lease in your name and aren't you paying all or most of the bills already? And, isn't it your car, too? So, it isn't a typical situation where the GF/wife is at home without any assets and she has to save money so that she can move out to her own apartment. You
can insist that your BF move out and have the locks changed to prevent him from returning. Counselors from a battered women's shelter can give you more information on what you can do to keep safe.
Please do not allow your BF access to the money that you earn from your new job. Perhaps, it can be direct deposited in an account in your name only at a different bank. Since, your BF does not have a car there is no way that he can even drive over to the bank to attempt to get the money. Heck, do not even tell him the name of the bank.
Frankly, your BF should never of had access to the money that you inherited from your dad. If there is any inherited money left, please put it your name in that far away bank, too.
I really wish you luck and I want you to be safe.