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Old 08-24-2016, 01:12 PM
 
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I think my daughter was around 8, which is a little older than most kids even in the 80's. I let her figure it out on her own just as my mother did me.


And I was at least 9 when I got my proof. I found a big plastic bowl under the guest beds with toys in it, and when I saw those same toys under the tree on Christmas morning, I was finally convinced. I had certainly heard other kids say that Santa wasn't real but I refused to believe them until I had better proof than them.
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Old 08-28-2016, 08:29 AM
 
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Oldest kid, now 11: I'm not sure. I know she was doubting at around age 7 (1st grade). She has a suspicious nature. We never really talked about it though.

Middle kid, now 9: I think she was highly suspicious this past year (at age 8) but still wanted to believe. My mom accidentally let it out of the bag shortly after the holidays. Oops, Grandma!

Youngest kid, age 5: Total true believer at this time. It's very cute.

I am amazed at how many parents of kids who are 11 years old (my oldest girl's classmates) think their kids still believe. Come on, Mom & Dad, you're being played.
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Old 08-31-2016, 06:11 AM
 
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My 7 year old still believes, but has asked some questions about it. Thank god for Rise of the Guardians. They gave me a great way to address the issue. If you still believe in him, he still exists. If not, he fades away.
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Old 12-29-2017, 08:42 AM
 
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Bump.

We just told our 10 year old last night. He was devastated.

His friends started to defect from the magic last year and the questions were growing. We did one more Christmas with Santa and it went well. But in the past few days his friends have been stating its us rather than St Nick. So we decided not to wait any longer. It was painful.
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Old 12-29-2017, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Charlotte Area
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Bump.

We just told our 10 year old last night. He was devastated.

His friends started to defect from the magic last year and the questions were growing. We did one more Christmas with Santa and it went well. But in the past few days his friends have been stating its us rather than St Nick. So we decided not to wait any longer. It was painful.
We will be doing this Christmas 2018. Our son will be 10 in a couple of weeks. That's really the end. I think he knows and has known but doesn't want to let go. Our daughter is 8 and will be 9 by next Christmas. I think she also has suspicions as she's asked whether or not he's real. I told her if she believed he was real than he was. I know their friends have told them he isn't real and that it's us giving them presents.

I'm ready for it to end. I would love to start doing trips at Christmas.
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Old 12-29-2017, 09:27 AM
 
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We will be doing this Christmas 2018. Our son will be 10 in a couple of weeks. That's really the end. I think he knows and has known but doesn't want to let go. Our daughter is 8 and will be 9 by next Christmas. I think she also has suspicions as she's asked whether or not he's real. I told her if she believed he was real than he was. I know their friends have told them he isn't real and that it's us giving them presents.

I'm ready for it to end. I would love to start doing trips at Christmas.

Personally, I will miss playing the clandestine role of Santa. Cookies and milk, NORAD tracker, notes, etc. I ran the gamut and did well. Kind of a victim of my own success.

We watched the Polar Express and I attempted to use that theme i.e. Santa is a symbol of the goodness of Christmas. He does exist, but in a spiritual rather than physical presence.

End of the innocence ....
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Old 12-29-2017, 10:13 AM
 
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My son is almost 8 and still believes but I wouldn’t be surprised if he doesn’t next year. He asked a lot of questions about it this year and is very logical so it’s only a matter of time.
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Old 12-29-2017, 10:46 AM
 
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We never did Santa as something real. It was more of a game. My son asked around age 6 if Santa was real and said he didnt think one person could deliver all of those gifts. I confirmed that parents are Santa but told him not to tell his friends. My daughter never really believed, I don’t think. As far as I know, they didn’t spoil it for any friends.

They are teenagers now and we still don’t put out the gifts until late Christmas Eve and we do refer to Santa bringing them, though.
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Old 01-01-2018, 05:34 PM
 
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Mine was 8 when he learned that Santa isn't real. I think he learned it in school because I didn't tell him. I would have rather let him experience that part of childhood for as long as he could.
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Old 01-02-2018, 06:42 AM
 
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Mine was 8 when he learned that Santa isn't real. I think he learned it in school because I didn't tell him. I would have rather let him experience that part of childhood for as long as he could.
Was he sad?
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