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Old 12-05-2017, 04:39 PM
 
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Some guidance counselors are stupid and / or petty. Worse, because they are mandated reporters they are immune from any of their malicious or idiotic claims. Have a friend, no bull, CPS was called on her over jaywalking but, the school is at a sloppy intersection. She said even the CPS lady said the call didn't need to be made. In the end it don't matter cuz' when CPS get involved, they only care about checkin' their boxes.
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Old 12-06-2017, 07:16 AM
 
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There must be more to the story.

Definitely more to the story!
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Old 12-06-2017, 07:22 AM
 
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CPS was called because a 15 year old said at school she likes to feel orgasms. CPS told the girl sex is for adults and want her to think about what she wants to be in the future.

Why so elusive about the context? Who,what,where,how. Who called cps, where did this happen? Is this in the news or a personal story?
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Old 12-08-2017, 12:02 PM
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A sad testament to the failure and decline of a society...Whatever happened to the councilors they used to have in high schools?
Who would ever call CPS for something like that??...very saaaad!
If the girl said she "likes to feel orgasms", she's likely having sex as well.
Telling her sex is for adults is useless.....it would have been a good time though to discuss birth control with her and perhaps the repercussions of having indiscriminate sex with multiple partners.
Once again the system has proved a failure...and has only assured that this young woman will be a lot more secretive about her true feelings.
Most young women experience orgasm through masturbation, not sex.


What decline are you talking about? You mean the decline from just a few decades ago when women weren't even allowed to have sexual desire? Uh huh.
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Old 01-05-2018, 10:42 AM
 
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Most young women experience orgasm through masturbation, not sex.


What decline are you talking about? You mean the decline from just a few decades ago when women weren't even allowed to have sexual desire? Uh huh.
OK...masturbation then....a guess on your part..Uh huh!!!
The decline refers to calling CPS for such a small incident that could very easily have been handled with more compassion and understanding by the school themselves.
If you're so hot under the coller about how women are/were treated in the past/present, why not start your own thread?...could prove interesting.
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Old 01-06-2018, 09:38 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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CPS didn't do anything. Someone else called them, and they must respond to calls.
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Old 01-06-2018, 02:43 PM
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CPS didn't do anything. Someone else called them, and they must respond to calls.
Not if they are, on their face, ridiculous. One son giving the other a hicky is, on its face, ridiculous. Or interviewing a child and deliberately mishearing "he (the father) put me on the stairs" as "he (the father) pushed me on the stairs" because the principal was upset about something else and wanted to stir the pot.
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Old Today, 07:23 PM
 
Location: Camberville
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If the girl said she "likes to feel orgasms", she's likely having sex as well.
If a teenage girl likes orgasms, the last thing she's doing is having sex with a teenage boy.

It is absolutely developmentally normal to explore one's body as a teenager. To demonize it and make threats around it will backfire.

I do suspect there is more to the story, though...
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