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Old 04-04-2018, 10:41 AM
 
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Take screenshots of the texts.

Encourage your son to ignore her. Maybe talk with him about identifying and dealing with crazy people.

If it doesn't stop, contact the school and ask them to set up a meeting with the girl and the parents. Bring the screenshots.

Hope this blows over soon,
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Old 04-04-2018, 11:42 AM
 
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Yes of course I know her name.

My son only has one social media platform...she was on it for a little while but doesn't follow him
now.
before you go to anyone, sit down and discuss this with your son, tell him you wanted to know how he feels about you contacting her parents, tell him your concerns...and let him know, your not looking for his approval but before you did anything, you wanted to know what his feelings are about it?
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Old 04-04-2018, 12:20 PM
 
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Okay I'm back when I read this to my sister who is a life coach and she says this girl sounds unstable and maybe you should say something to the guidance counselor , because some kids cant handle rejection and they might retaliate against the person whom they believe to be the reason they are unhappy . Yes be proud of your son he is turning into a fine young man and I'm sure that is because of you . I would still keep an eye out and for Gods sake don't get rid of that stuff on his phone put it in a gallery or something in case you need it at a later date . God bless you both .
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Old 04-04-2018, 01:04 PM
 
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Okay I'm back when I read this to my sister who is a life coach and she says this girl sounds unstable and maybe you should say something to the guidance counselor , because some kids cant handle rejection and they might retaliate against the person whom they believe to be the reason they are unhappy . Yes be proud of your son he is turning into a fine young man and I'm sure that is because of you . I would still keep an eye out and for Gods sake don't get rid of that stuff on his phone put it in a gallery or something in case you need it at a later date . God bless you both .
Oh wow, thanks. And thanks for the compliments as well.

My son is home sick today...so no updates.

My son thinks (and I agree) that if he hears or sees anything else, that will be the time to approach somebody. Until then we are just holding steady here.
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Old 04-04-2018, 02:49 PM
 
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Find out who the parents are and speak with them.

And in the future, KNOW the parents.
Some might consider me to be overly strict because I have never let my kids go to a friendís house, or to a movie, the mall, etc. unless I met the parents first. This has always been the case whether they were 4 years old or 14.
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Old 04-04-2018, 03:59 PM
 
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Some might consider me to be overly strict because I have never let my kids go to a friendís house, or to a movie, the mall, etc. unless I met the parents first. This has always been the case whether they were 4 years old or 14.
That might well be prudent. However, in our case, they never actually WENT anywhere. It's not like I could prevent them from seeing each other at school. Also we invited them to dinner. All we got was a "no". That is not our approach to parenting, but that's how it goes.
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Old 04-04-2018, 04:19 PM
 
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Poor boy. His sweet little attempts to be a boyfriend too....

I would tell him, heck, have his father tell him Son, we need to sift a lot of gravel in life to find a diamond. Advise him to move on and just block the text messages (after you have alerted the authorities).
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Old 04-04-2018, 05:07 PM
 
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Poor boy. His sweet little attempts to be a boyfriend too....

I would tell him, heck, have his father tell him Son, we need to sift a lot of gravel in life to find a diamond. Advise him to move on and just block the text messages (after you have alerted the authorities).
I know, right?

He said with all the gifts and notes and candy he gave her, she would say "oh you are so sweet and you make my life better..."

Next thing he knew he was accused of being the boyfriend from hell.
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Old 04-04-2018, 05:30 PM
 
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This is immature teenage girl drama. Maybe he could get used to it, don't look at it, not take it personally and move on.
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Old 04-04-2018, 05:31 PM
 
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This is immature teenage girl drama. Maybe he could get used to it, don't look at it, not take it personally and move on.
He's not in any hurry to get another "girlfriend", I'll tell you that. (Which is OK by me).
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