My sons girlfriend has been cheating with my best friends son should I get involved ??? (leave, emotional)

[widowspeak67]

Originally Posted by nobodysbusiness

Of course you should tell him. Who are you protecting in not telling him?

It's a major betrayal to know and not tell him. You are actually complicit in her making a fool out of him. You're also enabling her!

Telling tomorrow. Were both off

[G-fused]

Originally Posted by Lovehound

I thought it was wrong

Ya don't say?

[Lovehound]

Originally Posted by G-fused

Ya don't say?

[widowspeak67]

Originally Posted by Lovehound

One of my exes let her 15 year old daughter have her 18-19 year old boyfriend sleep over. She let them smoke dope too.

I thought it was wrong, but I wasn't related and I don't butt in to other people's families. Not my business, not my problem.

She didn't peek in, but what else would they be doing overnight? Actually I quite liked her boyfriend "Baggage" (called because he had bags under his eyes at that age). He and I hit it off because he has a good sense of humor, and he was banging the daughter while I was banging the mother.

Woah !!!

[widowspeak67]

Ill let everyone know How it went

[Ralph_Kirk]

Originally Posted by widowspeak67

Ill text her today and tell her what Tracey said

I would not do any of this by text. This is all a face-to-face matter, no matter what.

Nor would I contact Rachelle. What do you expect her to do? Break down and confess and repent?

That's not going to happen--she's going to fight back and she's going to do it by driving a wedge between you and your son.

I'd take some of the earlier advice. Speak to your son first Lay out for him what you've heard without emotionalism and without telling him what to do. Just give him the information--what you heard the way you heard it--don't embellish it.

Let him decide what to do.

[Lovehound]

You are a pretty good OP! We like it when we get feedback, so we can learn to help people better in the future.

[widowspeak67]

Originally Posted by Lovehound

You are a pretty good OP! We like it when we get feedback, so we can learn to help people better in the future.

??? Are u heing sarcastic??

[Lovehound]

Originally Posted by widowspeak67

??? Are u heing sarcastic??

Not at all. I appreciate that you said you'd tell us how this worked out.

[Soccernerd]

It might be too late, and others have probably said it already, but absolutely do NOT converse with Rachelle via text. A phone call would be better, but talking to her in person would be best. There is so much to communicate through body language and facial expressions. It would be easier for Rachelle to see that this is serious and for you to see if she’s being honest in her responses to your questions.