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Old Yesterday, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Texas
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If it were me, and I found out later that my mother knew and kept this from me.... I would be super upset.

You need to tell him.
Agree.
And I would tell my boy just so he does not get an std, either.
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Old Yesterday, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Richardson, TX
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It’s not your place to talk to her. I’d have told him what the neighbor said 4 months ago.
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Old Yesterday, 08:09 AM
 
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I would tell him. I'd want to know if I was being cheated on.
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Old Yesterday, 08:14 AM
 
Location: El Pueblo de Nuestra Señora la Reina de los Ángeles del Río Porciúncula
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And I would tell my boy just so he does not get an std, either.
Let's hope he did what I did. As a kid I was all over everything. I found my dad's condoms around 14-15 and they meshed with the "birds and bees" my parents bought for me and sis. I didn't feel bad ripping off a few of my dad's condoms. I was sure he'd rather have me rip him of than get a girl pregnant or get an STD.

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I would tell him. I'd want to know if I was being cheated on.
The closest relationship here is mother-son. There is where the discussion should happen. Telling him isn't meddling IMO, it's a reality check.
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Old Yesterday, 08:14 AM
 
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Your son will get angry but do it anyway and protect him from being a cuckold father. Don't let him be the clean up guy. He will get mad at you today but thank you in 10 years for not letting him be the community clean up guy.
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Old Yesterday, 08:27 AM
 
Location: St Augustine
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Next time Rachelle is at the neighbors house (have your friend tell you when that is) and then send your son over there to borrow something.


Honestly, I would have a talk with Rachelle.
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Old Yesterday, 08:29 AM
 
Location: El Pueblo de Nuestra Señora la Reina de los Ángeles del Río Porciúncula
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Next time Rachelle is at the neighbors house (have your friend tell you when that is) and then send your son over there to borrow something.
Very clever idea!

Even better if OP and her neighbor can collaborate and make it so.
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Old Yesterday, 12:22 PM
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Location: Sacramento
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Crap
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Old Yesterday, 12:25 PM
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Location: Sacramento
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Oh well its too late now she coming
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Old Yesterday, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Oh well its too late now she coming
What?
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